To think I've completely embarrassed myself?

[girlsgonetame]

So I think my DH is having an affair (there's a whole other thread about that). Have found the girl on Instagram and been having a look thru and now my friend has helpfully said to me "you do know she can see if you've watched her story?" NO?!?! I didn't know that?!?! She's going to know I've been looking and she'll tell DH and my cover will be blown. Maybe they're not even having an affair and I've simply made a fool of myself - that's the best case scenario!

The basic check list - and the whatsapp hack!

Changing habits
Leaving the house early and returning late
Business trips
Holiday or family event absences
Excessive overtime
Unexplained spending
Secret accounts (Instagram, email)
Hidden credit card bills
Extra grooming
Scent of someone else (typical lipstick on the collar)
Buying gifts you haven't seen
Unexplained items in the car
Joining a gym
Missed calls from an unknown number
Coded or secretive text messages
Less sex
Evasiveness or defensiveness
Obvious lies
Prickliness or short temper
Hate surprise visits (your unexpected arrival may come at an inopportune time for a cheater)

If you deleted any Chat history or messages without backup, you can still recover lost messages, attachments from the WhatsApp automatic backups. It is because WhatsApp automatically makes backups every day at 4 AM (your local time) and stores them on your phone’s internal memory (only given that there is enough free space) or external microSD card of your Android phone. What you will need in order to recover WhatsApp messages is to uninstall the WhatsApp, then reinstall the chat app again. During the installation process, you will be prompted to restore your message history. Simply tap Restore and everything less than seven days old is restored.

And re those calls that were made - and now have access to - time and duration key. Long late night chats scream cyber - and brief calls outside of work hours scream arrangements to meet and need to be tallied with times home.

Hope helps simply knowing can - and that don't deem necessary to try. As writing to empower not advise.

Finest wishes again A