To meet up with him?

[LostLittlePuppyDog]

6 weeks post split he’s still contacting me, sending texts and Facebook messages.

He doesn’t want it to end and wants to meet up to talk to see if we could give things another try. I still love him but don’t feel like I could trust him again. Would it be unreasonable to meet up and talk about how we both feel, hoping that will give him a bit of closure? Or would it give him false hope that I’m willing to talk to him in the first place?

Don’t bother OP, he will only try and get you back.

Was he unfaithful?

That never works for me.

Don't waste your time. If the trust is gone, it's over.

Was in the exact same situation as you Wednesday. I chose the stupid decision and ended up seeing him. Because I still love him all the words I planned to say went out the window, and now it's even harder to get him to leave me alone. If you don't want to be with him then don't see him just say it on text or call him.

Not cheating exactly, at least not physically. He was talking to other women online, the messages were a bit flirty but not anything more than that. I think I’d always wonder if he was texting others though and if it could turn into more with someone else so that’s where I feel like the trust has gone.

That’s what I’m worried about too helpmee that the feelings I still have for him will take over my resolve. I’ll maybe just say it in a last message and then not reply again.

Thanks everyone.

Ignore and move on!!

Oh goodness are you sure we were not dating the same man!? Took me a while to accept the fact that him messaging other women flirting with them and sending pictures of himself IS cheating. In the end I couldn't deal with the trust issues I had with the bloke so I ended it. Then 7 weeks later which was Wednesday I gave into him and decided to meet him but nothing ever goes right when your with them in person, emotion is too high you don't think clearly. Please be strong, tell him it's over on text and block. Don't let him get back into your life by showering his pathetic love on you