To act on my fluttery feeling?

[CharlesLeeRay]

Known him a few years, not friends as such, but to say hello to and have a chat..

He's gorgeous and really lovely, I'm just a bit nervous. I haven't so much as been near a man since my 11 month old was conceived and I'm finally feeling ready to get out there again.

Saw him last night and oh my! My stomach was doing somersaults, I had sweaty palms and my heart was skipping beats! This has happened when I've seen him before, such a weird feeling.

Should I just bite the bullet and ask him out? I'm not sure if he likes me or not so would I be making a tit of myself? He bought be a drink, said I looked good amd was constantly smiling but that doesn't mean anything - he may have just been being friendly! I've never asked someone out and I'm a bit clueless!

What do you think? I'm perfectly aware I sound like a school girl with crush

Definitely ask him out!

@notmuchmoretogive but what if he tells me to do one

If he tells you to do one then move on. Dating after 17 years of marriage was horrendous at first but got better with practice. Good luck.

Well if you ask and he says no, then no harm done, I’d rather that than spend all my time wondering what if!!

I had the same feeling when I met DH. I started emailing him in work and then I eventually plucked up the courage to ask him to go for a drink.
11 years and 2 kids later and were still very happy xxx

@travellinglighter 17 years is a very long time so I can't imagine it was easy!

@fiydwi this is true, I'll never know if I don't ask! He's a bit older than me, I'm 27 and I think he is early 40's so I'm thinking he'll think I'm too young for him!

It's lovely that once you plucked up the courage it went somewhere and you're still happy.

I think I'm going to do it!