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AIBU or should I get over it?

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Imbananas · 04/08/2019 07:36

I live in a flat on a residential estate. We have an interior courtyard which can be used by us all to chill. It is mainly used by kids riding their bikes or playing football and mainly at weekends. This is a quiet residential area usually as there are mainly families. Last night one couple decided to have a party. The thing is that they didn’t keep the party on their property/flat they removed a link from their veranda and had the party in the communal courtyard.
They had a barbecue in the communal courtyard and even their veranda furniture was out in the courtyard. They even had a shots station and tables set up.

Myself and my family had to make different sleeping arrangements due to this as we couldn’t rest. They were very loud outside obviously as it’s a party.

AIBU to think that they’ve gone too far by holding their party in a communal area without even talking to the other residents and letting them know that this was going to happen? My husband says that they’ve gone too far but to let it be. Well I am leaving it alone however is this selfish behaviour to you? Or is it just me?

I come from a different culture and this kind of behaviour is not acceptable. I’m not sure if it’s just me being too sensitive.

OP posts:
SilverySurfer · 04/08/2019 10:08

As it's a one off I would live and let live. I definitely wouldn't complain unless it became a regular occurrence.

CruellaFeinberg · 04/08/2019 10:08

I think I would try and think its a one off, yeah it would have been nice if they bothered to let you know, but try and rise above

keep a note of the times and dates and if it happens again have a word

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