I’ve been driving for many decades now, all over the world, and I’ve never ever had an accident. I drive a lot. Everytime we go on a long distance car journey my OH starts passenger seat driving. Telling me that traffic is slowing down ahead. That I should move lane. Rocking back and forth when he thinks I should be putting my foot down etc etc..I flipped today after over an hour of constant low key instructions/verbal driving comments. It’s like having a driving instructor next to me! I asked him to please stop dictating to me how to drive. It’s not the first time I’ve had to ask this. Today, when I asked this, he became stroppy and insulting. Told me I wasn’t paying attention, which I was but I do end up frazzled after listening to him dictate whilst I’m trying to concentrate. It’s frustrating because I’ve driven competently for so many years. He’s the one who has had previous accidents! Anyway, it ended up in a huge row because I’m sick to the back teeth of being spoken to like a child and told what to do in that sort of situation. I wondered if I’m BU and it’s a normal thing that people comment on each other’s driving when in the car together?