Wow, that's a much more positive response than I was expecting! Thanks! I've always believed that we don't stop playing because we get old, we get old because we stop playing, and having come to terms with the legacy from my (now deceased) narc mother and accepted that my DB will only ever contact me when he wants something, I'm starting to live my life for me again.
@Chardonnay, yes, I still have plenty. But it's gone grey. It's not a good look...