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AIBU to only being jealous of their intimate relationship?

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Yorkshireteagold1 · 02/08/2019 17:21

Split with my ex 9 months ago, and he's got a new girlfriend. We were together for 8 years, I don't mind him being with this woman. It's just that him and I had a very good and passionate sex life, great sexual chemistry and I'm now jealous that he's going to have that with this new woman.

I can't stop thinking about them being intimate, it drives me crazy. I'm not jealous of any other part of their relationship, just this. Anyone else felt like this before?

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Yorkshireteagold1 · 02/08/2019 17:59

Anyone?Sad

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Barbie222 · 02/08/2019 18:00

It seems that you do mind him being with her, and haven't moved on?

UnchangedFaces321 · 02/08/2019 18:01

I get it. Before I met my husband, I'd had so many amazing sexual experiences with a Friend With Benefits (I know, not entirely the same situation) and when he moved away I was so upset that someone new would have amazing experiences with him

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Yorkshireteagold1 · 02/08/2019 18:24

@UnchangedFaces321 it's almost as if I'm scared I won't have that kind of sexual chemistry with someone else.

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UnchangedFaces321 · 02/08/2019 19:19

I totally get that. It's okay to be jealous of sexual chemistry

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