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AIBU?

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AIBU for wanting to tell his girlfriend

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ysmaem · 01/08/2019 20:19

A couple of weekends ago my sister and myself was in a night out and she met a guy she knew from school on a night out. One of the first things she asked him was if he was single and he said he was. She went to find him on Facebook so they could friend each other and when she couldn't find his account he told us he'd deleted his facebook due to a psycho ex harassing him. Nothing overly suspicious there. Things happened between them that night and next morning she phoned me and said she was gutted he didn't have a Facebook so she could message him to meet up again as he was such a genuinely nice bloke. She told me his name and I don't know what made me search for him but I just had a gut instinct and I found his account straight away. Became very apparent he has girlfriend, has loads of photos of them together, very recent ones. It looks very likely he blocked my sister that night so she couldn't find his facebook to see he was in a relationship or for her to contact him. She feels absolutely terrible and guilty but doesn't want to reach out to the girlfriend so she doesn't get the backlash and hate but I'm tempted to teach this low life of a man a lesson by reaching out telling his girlfriend what he's been up to but at the same time I dont want to upset my sister. AIBU?

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formerbabe · 01/08/2019 21:32

You can do it anonymously

Bloody hell, you're not reporting a crime. A random guy tried to chat up your sister on a night out. Jeez, do people really waste brain space on this sort of stuff?!

VenusTiger · 01/08/2019 21:33

Confused, MNs usually want the truth!
If this was you @ysmaem and it was your bf, wouldn’t you want to know? I bloody would! Shit stirring or not, don’t shoot the messenger. She could be planning a baby with him for all we know. Tell her.

formerbabe · 01/08/2019 21:36

But who cares...there's cheating blokes all over the country. Why would you involve yourself? What's the point?

PlinketyPlinketyPlonk · 01/08/2019 21:50

formerbabe
OP says "Things happened between them that night "

He didn't just try chat her up

Tiredtessy · 01/08/2019 22:16

She wont be the first or the last so leave it and he has obviously blocked her on his phone to. Hes a user

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