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Partner texting another woman

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Justme49 · 01/08/2019 15:48

Hi all. My partner has a female friend who he txts from time to time. She is married. They have been friends for a few years.

I feel uncomfortable with this ad she txts him with stupid stuff. He is a joiner and yesterday she's texting him where to find a switch in her house to turn something off. Surely she should be asking her husband this?

Up until recently, she didn't know I existed. He kept our relationship a secret. She knows about me now only coz I sent her a txt from his phone saying he is with me.

Am.i being unreasonable feeling uncomfortable about this? He has already cheated behind my back with someone else and I am having serious trust issues ad it is.

Thanks for reading xx

OP posts:
Justme49 · 01/08/2019 18:49

He had 3 female pals. One who was an ex, one who he was cheating on me with and this latest one who txts him absolute nonsense just as am excuse to text him. He said they all knew about me. Turned out home of them knew about me. He was making out to them all he was single. I am so hurt and Sad

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Newkitchen123 · 21/06/2021 19:18

@Justme49

Yes he did. I even tried to befriend her as I wanted to get to know his friends and all the while he was having sex with her behind my back.
There would be no going back from that with me
ComingOutOfMyCave · 21/06/2021 19:55

LTB Biscuit

DrManhattan · 21/06/2021 20:00

Zombie

OlympicProcrastinator · 21/06/2021 20:18

Any woman that gets cheated on and forgives their partner will have it happen to them again. If he didn’t respect you enough to stay faithful the first time, he will have lost any respect he had the minute you took him back. This doesn’t bode well OP. If it’s not this woman, it will be another one.

Newkitchen123 · 21/06/2021 20:21

@DrManhattan

Zombie
Duh I didn't notice the date! Grrrr
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