We are on a family holiday and generally it’s been better than usual. My DM is the rich matriarch of the family that believes this gives her the right to say pretty much anything she wants (she was undoubtedly a big support to DF in his work but she was a SAHM). There has been little opportunity for her to do the usual belittling of my DH as I think she has finally got to grips with the fact that actually we get on well together, have happy DC and a successful business (tho DB - the golden child often refers to it as a business that would not sustain in bad times tho it has gone from strength to strength in 10 years or something he can do as a side to his much more important work - a view she has too) is kind of more important than the fact that she doesn’t like his family (whom she literally never sees) or DH wouldn’t be ‘her choice for me’. However, whilst there has been little engagement from her on anything of substance about our lives (even tho she lives a massively gilded life she doesn’t like any perceived threat to her position as she would have course been able to do anything I can do better) she has taken the opportunity to focus (again) on my weight and how I need to sort it out. She isn’t wrong. I am overweight. But I feel that it’s a little bit insulting to concentrate on that one thing so I was wondering if anyone had any come backs that I could use.