Are we being unreasonable

[Scorpiovenus]

Bm again has made plans on my finances only day he gets a week. Tell me mums. Why does she always do this and is it normal for so many parties on a Sunday ? Just seems weird she thinks time with kids he sees at school every day is more important then time with his dad? Please help me understand why this is ok?

What? Who is BM and I have no idea what the rest is about

Just think it's v sad BM ????? Being a step is a minefield. Some people can't empathise until they have a child of their own or think parenting is a competitive sport. I could rant on for ages but my wine is getting warm😁