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Anyone Else Miss The 1990s?

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JediJim · 28/07/2019 23:16

With everything that’s been going on in the world and the UK over that last decade or so, did anyone else think that life seemed more simple two decades ago? I’m talking about the 1990s...
To me life seemed so much more simple. Lots of people still had just the four channels( well at least in the early 90s anyway) , no mobile phones, no internet as such, not until the late 90s anyway. I remember the kids tv programmes seemed good at the time, maybe down to the fact there was less choice, but the BBC used to make decent kids dramas, like Byker Grove and Grange Hill. I remember starting secondary school and being terrified of the older kids ( 16 year olds seemed old when you are 11).
People seemed to live within their means more and if you couldn’t afford it you didn’t get it. I remember the early 90s when interest rates were really high, people were hard up but rode it out. Politics didn’t seem to be on the news constantly, and Brexit was a word that hadn’t even been thought of yet. John Major was the PM, but I can’t think of anything of significance that he did. People on benefits seemed to get left alone, unlike the constant scrutiny they have now.
I remember people used to collect CDs and people smoking in shopping centres and restaurants. People still paid for things with cheque books, town centres seemed busier( probably down to no amazon back then).
Euro 96 seemed to bring the country together like nothing else I’ve ever seen in my lifetime, it really was a great time. Then Tony Blair came into power, promising to change the country from a tired Tory Government. The D:Ream song things can only get better was the anthem for Labour. It seemed a turning point for the decade.
The summer holidays seemed to go on forever with decent summer weather.
Life just seemed generally easier back then, to apply for a job you could hand in a cv to a real person.
Anyone else miss the 90s?

OP posts:
formerbabe · 29/07/2019 15:27

Do love the 90s.

I disagree about children's tv though. I think it's fantastic now. My dc watch cbbc and its absolutely brilliant.

SVRT19674 · 29/07/2019 15:31

Hell yes, I was 18 in 1992. There was so much more hope then. Now everyone is angry and nasty, trolls everywhere. Assholes opinions were only heard at the village pub. It was great.

Ronsters · 29/07/2019 15:54

I was 22 in 1990. Some of it was good, music, clothes, I had no student debt and I think it was easier to find a job. I was young, carefree and it was a good time, personally.
After the 1980s, it also seemed a much more optimistic time. Though there were worrying bits, such as the conflict in the Balkans.

I also remember a very laddish feel to the 90s, with lots of young men seemingly modelling themselves on Loaded mag. My first job (financial sector), was very "blokey", far more so than now.

Passthecherrycoke · 29/07/2019 15:56

Yep true. Ladettes and nuts/ FHM magazines pretty grim too

user87382294757 · 29/07/2019 15:58

No, hard times, lived in freezing custard coloured student flat and worked Saturdays in Argos to get me through Uni, remember tracking to the hospital for the morning after pill on a freezing New Years. Just being poor and my family being crap, really.

hereforasillygoosetime · 29/07/2019 16:06

Yes.

RosaWaiting · 29/07/2019 16:08

oh the FHM thing....I do remember it but it still seems much worse now. Being constantly hit on in nightclubs wasn't such a thing. The expectation of sex just because you danced with a bloke wasn't there, or less frequently.

now people seem to take drugs to be angry rather than happy.

Henlie · 29/07/2019 16:09

1990s - brilliant decade..... I was age 15-25. University was free to all, and most people got some kind of a grant for living expenses (depending on parents earnings).
The music though was the best...... in the late 1990s (I think) I had my radio tuned to Kiss FM - waking up to BamBam and Street Boy every morning for work. Happy Days(!)

RosaWaiting · 29/07/2019 16:10

Henlie I still have to listen to dance music before work or I'd not get out of bed Grin

Henlie · 29/07/2019 16:14

rosawaiting 😆. I now have Kisstory on in the car 😉 a throw back to my ‘youth’.

Cheeseoncrumpets · 29/07/2019 16:15

Has anyone seen Derry Girls? I was a teenager in the 90's and they have it completely spot on! The clothes, the hair, the pop culture references and the music! Proper 90's music that I've not heard in well over 20 years because it doesnt get played anymore. When people talk about 90's music now they seem to focus solely on Brit Pop or Grunge or The Spice Girls at a push, but most people didnt really listen to that stuff.

It was a great time to be a teen!

Songsofexperience · 29/07/2019 16:18

Yes, I do miss it but probably because I miss my youth 😀. I was 17 in 97, the year I got here. Britain was pretty cool back then eh? I loved the Verve... off to listen to Lucky Man now.

fancynancyclancy · 29/07/2019 16:44

Yeah I remember not liking the laddish culture/nuts etc but that seems tame now compared to porny music videos/dick pics etc.

PurpleTreeFrog · 29/07/2019 16:46

The 90s were shit. Everyone got divorced in the 90s.

elprup · 29/07/2019 17:02

Most people didn’t have combi boilers so got a bath once a week when the immerse was switched on.

We’re talking about the 1990s, not the 1940s!

elprup · 29/07/2019 17:03

I do miss the days before social media - but wouldn’t we all miss Mumsnet? Wink

ScreamingValenta · 29/07/2019 17:14

It was the last age of any kind of innocence I think, because there was no internet.

Not true! The internet was well-established by the mid-90s. I really enjoyed the early days of the internet, pre-1995, when it was predominantly used by geeks -like me-.

LuxuryWoman2018 · 29/07/2019 17:24

Most people didn’t have combi boilers so got a bath once a week when the immerse was switched on

No, that's the 70's - we showered in the 90's and we used internet too!

ScreamingValenta · 29/07/2019 17:31

Most people didn’t have combi boilers so got a bath once a week when the immerse was switched on

Even in the 1970s it wasn't unusual to have a bath/shower every day - we certainly did and we were by no means rich or upper class.

Not having a combi-boiler doesn't mean you have to use an immersion heater. You just have to switch the hot water on (or set it to come on) half an hour or so before you want it. And electric showers existed in the 70s, let alone the 90s.

I wonder if some posters think the OP meant the 1890s Grin.

Passthecherrycoke · 29/07/2019 17:31

I got my combi boiler last year 🤣 it doesn’t make any difference to how often we wash or the availability of hot water. It is just instant rather than being on a timer and needing time to heat up

RosaWaiting · 29/07/2019 17:39

The room I rented wasn’t great but we did have a combi boiler.

I love social media! Before social media, whenlondon turned horrible, I had a phase of feeling really lost. Social media got me in touch with local people who I’d not have found any other way because of all the commuting!

Something else I miss - coming home from a couple of drinks after work and the Tube wasn’t busy. Now it’s just busy all the time.

dayslikethese1 · 29/07/2019 17:44

I do agree to an extent but I think it's just cos I was a kid then. I like the music and fashions.

For all the PP saying about always having to be available though due to mobiles, that seems more like a case of bad employers and working practices than technology as such.

dayslikethese1 · 29/07/2019 17:45

Ppl seem very work obsessed these days as well but I'm not sure whether that's just my own perception.

RosaWaiting · 29/07/2019 17:46

Oh I worked long hours then too.

ScreamingValenta · 29/07/2019 17:53

For all the PP saying about always having to be available though due to mobiles, that seems more like a case of bad employers and working practices than technology as such.

I remember an answering machine being advertised on TV in either the late 80s or the 90s, promoting it as a means of call-screening: 'You can be out when the boss wants to you work the weekend' was the selling point.

Things like caller display and 1471 were only just coming in during the 90s (and does anyone remember Ph01ne day? Grin ) If you had an analogue phone, and pre-caller display, there was no way of screening your calls (other than getting another family member to tell callers you were out).