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3-year-old refusing to sleep

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IAmJustSoTired · 28/07/2019 20:55

I’m at my wit’s end. It’s a nightly fight.

Over the past few weeks/months, my 3yo is suddenly fighting against sleep, whether it is a nap or bedtime. She will continuously say “I don’t want to sleep / I’m not tired / Dont make me sleep...” and so on.

When we put her to bed, she will nonstop talk, sing, fidget, ANYTHING to get out of falling asleep, even if she’s desperately tired. You can tell she’s exhausted because of her mood changing, heavy eyes, constant yawning and overall slowing down. Still, she just doesn’t want to sleep.

I’m sick and tired of her whinging and crying every single night. I feel like I might lose my mind with the nightly battle of calming her down and putting her to sleep.

I’ve been planning to write this for a while when I am calm and relaxed but she’s sat next to me now crying her head off and I just want to throw myself out a window (obviously not really). She has been awake since 7am and had no nap. It’s almost 9pm and she’s still awake, whinging.

Help me.

Have you been through this? When does it stop? DOES it stop????

OP posts:
comfysocks8516 · 29/07/2019 08:20

And good luck - sleep fighting is the worst!!!

Hohofortherobbers · 29/07/2019 08:41

Agree drop the nap, also read a story with her and you lying down, she must have head on pillow, read it totally monotonously with no expression or change in voice at all, getting quieter as they drop off, beginning to repeat the same page over and over to avoid your movement turning the page or to avoid finishing the book, everything about bedtime must become quiet, calm and boring, no fights, no raised voices. Desperately hard I know, but this too will pass

Dinosaursdontgrowontrees · 29/07/2019 08:45

Definitely drop the nap..

IAmJustSoTired · 29/07/2019 10:24

thank you for so many replies - I’m going to go through them and hopefully try out your advice as soon as I can!

Just wanted to mention one thing: she has dropped the nap (on most days) but she is still resisting. Some days if she wakes up really early and she’s had an active day at the park/soft play then she falls asleep for an hour but it’s always around 12-1pm latest. Yesterday she didn’t have a nap and still stayed up from 7am to 10pm. Happens on most days, regardless of napping.

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Yeahnahmum · 29/07/2019 11:25

Drop. The. Nap!!!!

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