Hi I am just after a bit of advice . I do suffer a lot with anxiety but I don’t know if I’m just having a bad few days or this turkey id a problem . I know to some this may seem really petty but it’s becoming a huge problem for me . Iv been with my partner for 8 years and he’s always been in to his social media , football manger and fifa . He would and still just sits there after work playing his game from around 6 until he’s time. This does get to me on times because it makes me feel a bit lonely but then on other times I tell him to go on it because he never likes to watch anything I do so I think it makes life easier . Anyways I’m over this . Thankgod ha ha . So not only does he do what I have just mentioned but his phone constantly goes off . Non stop . What’s apps. And when I mean non stop I mean every two minutes or so . It’s only his brother but it’s really starting to get to me . I personally think it’s a bit too much especially at 30 years of age . I thought this was the kind of things teenagers do ? This has been the same for the whole time we have been together . But gradually got worse . So in between everything he’s doing I’m just sat there on my own watching tv . When I do talk he answers ten mins later because it’s just registered that I spoke . He just says sorry what was that . He works long hours . So do I do we spend little time together. I make an effort not to go on my phone when I’m home . If it’s an important text I will reply but that’s it . He says that he works all day now this is his time to reply . But he’s on what’s app all day in work . He accidentally showed me a message from his brother and the convo went on all morning and day . But only texts me around 4 times in work which could be every 3 hours or so because he says he’s been non stop 😂. That doesn’t bother me to much it’s just the non stop texting at home . Two nights ago for 4 hours he didn’t put his phone down the texts were back and forth constant so I went to bed . I I’ve mentioned to him that his phone is going off to much and he always turns it around to saying I wouldn’t stop you talking to your family . I’d never stop him but I think all day and night texting especially when it’s nice to have some time together is too much . On the odd occasion that we are watching something and his phone is going you can just tell he’s dying to look and reply then goes to the toilet and takes him phone too . These last two days have gotten to much for me . But is it a good enough reason to want to end it all or is my anxiety on a high about it all . It is making me pretty depressed. The fact that I know this ain’t something he is going to grow out of . If this continues tonight I will be mentioning that his brother texts you all night because his wife works shifts and doesn’t come home until 12 am so he’s there on his own . I think if she was home it would be different. Also his family are the same with their phones and technology. His mother is her laptop stuck to her lap from the moment she gets in from work . I wasn’t brought up like it . I just think do I really want to spend the rest of my life like this . My mother says that thing s could be worse he could be going out all the time with friends , but he doesn’t . He doesn’t go out and he is really good with work too . So I know I could have it a lot worse . I actually love going to bed lately because I know he won’t be on his phone . I don’t know if I sound pathetic or what anymore . Any replies would be grateful. I think I will feel better knowing what other people think . Thankyou