Had a shortish relationship with someone I work with, we split about 3/4 weeks ago. I saw him for the first time since we split today at work and it was really awkward. I’ll have to see him there sometimes, not really regularly it’s only once every six weeks or so when our shifts overlap, and I really don’t want it to always be awkward. Can I send him a message saying that? Or should I just leave it and see if time makes it less awkward?
He barely looked at me and didn’t really speak to me, i said hi to him and asked how he was, hoping that if I showed there was no hard feelings on my side it would make things a bit easier but that didn’t work out. There was no big argument when things ended, it was a misunderstanding about something so I don’t know if he feels upset/ doesn’t want to engage with me still in which case I think I’d want to give him space and not message him... but I don’t want to be apprehensive about seeing him again either.
Lesson learned about dating someone from work again too 