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AIBU to think he's an arse?

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NeedaCuppa1 · 26/07/2019 16:53

Ex is coming to pick the kids up today and conversation follows..

Me: Can you please buy some sugar for me when you come to pick the kids up today? I don’t have any cash on me, and you know the corner shop want you to spend at least £5 before you can pay with card.

Him: It’s not for my kids, then I’m not going to buy it.

Me: If you asked me to buy milk/sugar on the way to your house. I would do it, it has nothing to do with being in a relationship It’s a small favour people do for each other.

Him: When I take the kids get up off your arse and walk to Tesco. (Tesco is 10 min from me)

Really? HmmAIBU to think this is just a small favour people do for each other? It means nothing?
Some days we get on, and there’s days like this where I just think what the fuck just happened? I thought we were fine before this. We split up 2 years ago, got back together again and split up again January this year, because the same issues were still there. I think he’s just bitter and coming from a place of hurt, even though he’s in a new relationship. But he was fine with me a week ago Hmm so confusing.

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15YemenRoad · 28/07/2019 06:35

Problem solved, but he was not being an arse. You were the unreasonable one. People can and do do favours for one another but in this instance he wasn't heading to the shop, and how do you know he had enough cash?

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