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To feed my 3 yo this for dinner...

90 replies

TheSheepofWallSt · 24/07/2019 18:19

DS has been at nursery all day. He had breakfast at home, second breakfast at nursery, snack, lunch and afternoon snack.
He’s not going to starve.

It’s too bloody hot to cook so I ordered pizza from a naice chain about an hour ago. Still not here, restaurant can’t tell me how long it’ll be and DS needs a bath and to get to bed.

AIBU to give him:
Cutted up orange
Cucumber sticks
Carrot sticks
Breadsticks
Full fat Greek Yogurt bowl with crispies, but of dried fruit, chia seeds etc?

For dinner?!

I know it’s a bit shit. It’s just so hot and I really really don’t want to start making a dinner dinner now if he’s just going to fall asleep (filthy) before it’s on the table....

I don’t have any cheese. Or ham. Or anything animal based except the yogurt because I was a knob head, left the fridge open yesterday when it was 10000 degrees Sad and everything went wrong in there.

OP posts:
Armi · 24/07/2019 19:19

Picky tea is the worst phrase ever

Incorrect. ‘Picky bits‘ is the worst phrase ever.

Aquamarine1029 · 24/07/2019 19:20

Sounds like a great dinner to me, for anytime really. He'll love it!

pallisers · 24/07/2019 19:21

Far too much sugar. You might as well give him a snickers bar as give the poor child a whole orange.

Just kidding - usually that gets said on these threads. dinner sounds lovely and cool.

thedayofthethreeMagnums · 24/07/2019 19:22

well, if you look at the fruit content of dried fruits...

(yes, I am joking too!)

thedayofthethreeMagnums · 24/07/2019 19:23

*sugar content... duh!

INeedNewShoes · 24/07/2019 19:23

I would have thought the yoghurt would provide a decent dose of protein.

I think it's fine every so often for a meal to be like that.

millimollimandi · 24/07/2019 19:27

Oooh! A bitsa! We always had a bitsa for tea on a saturday - bitsa this and bitsa that. Basically a plate of whatever we could find - and sometimes that was a very weird tea!!

Derbee · 24/07/2019 19:33

Sounds perfectly adequate. This is a brave place to ask though! 😂

user1473878824 · 24/07/2019 19:35

@Springster Hmm calm down

mindutopia · 24/07/2019 19:36

It doesn't necessarily sound very calorie dense, but depends on the proportions. My 17 month old would probably eat that as a snack before dinner. But if it's more yogurt and breadstick and not all just fruit and veg, sounds fine if it fills them up. I would probably add in some cheese cubes though for extra fat and protein.

HopeIsNotAStrategy · 24/07/2019 19:37

It sounds blinking marvellous on one hot day. Chill and relax.

cheesemongery · 24/07/2019 19:39

Don't cutted up yer oranges, just segment em innit!

I want your sons dinner right now. Okay maybe only the bread sticks to dip in the yoghurt (maybe adding a little garlic and cucumber)

Mummyoftwo91 · 24/07/2019 19:39

Sounds fine, every week we have a picky bits dinner but my dd7 has renamed it piggy bits😁

sometimesalways · 24/07/2019 19:40

Sounds good to me! Greek yogurt is actually very nutritious

SiliconHeaven · 24/07/2019 19:42

Chia seeds [hhm]
It’s pizza express isn’t it op?

pikapikachu · 24/07/2019 19:43

We call meals like that tapas (even when they were toddlers) It was often an excuse for me to use fruit/veg that needed to be used , leftovers as well as food that was close to useby date.

A typical tapas meal would be carrot sticks, bolognese sauce (for dipping) , strawberries, ham and a yoghurt. My kids still enjoy tapas - it's not as random as back then but still weird. Think tempura prawns, chicken pakora, salami... 😂 Don't know why I picked the word tapas rather than picnic

00100001 · 24/07/2019 19:45

"I think it's fine every so often for a meal to be like that."

it's just essentially a normal lunch meal though.

if OP had said "My kids lunch was breadsticks and cucumber a cucumber sandwich, some carrot sticks, an orange, a full fat plain yoghurt with a bit of dried fruit and seeds in"

people wouldn't have batted an eyelid! you might have had the odd "waaaahhh...dried fruit is the devil" comments - but otherwise, it;s pretty much what a lot of the nation has for lunch!

it's because it was served for dinner, and people seem to think lunch food is not an acceptable thing to offer past 2 pm :/

Drogonssmile · 24/07/2019 19:45

My nearly three year old had strawberries, blueberries, 2 babybel, cucumber and cherry tomatoes. He loved it and so did I I because I didn't have to cook!

cheesemongery · 24/07/2019 19:45

my DS had leftover chilli for breakfast today.... food is food! doesn't matter when you have it...

There is a foodie program that I keep catching on the BBC - think after Saturday Morning Kitchen. I know nothing about it, other that they were at a school catering for all cuisines for all main cultures there - so Indian, Sri Lankan, maybe Chinese (see I wasn't paying much attention) but every time I see it, I see kids eating sambal and rice and veggies for breakfast and it looks so lovely! I think it's only us westerners that think pouring another animals milk onto sugar coated grains is a normal start to the day.

00100001 · 24/07/2019 19:49

cereals are treat food in this house! buy one box once a month

Except for porridge. They can have as many oats as they like...cheaper and more filling!

gotthefaceon · 24/07/2019 19:49

My children have skipped meals and had Greek yoghurt fruit and granola when hot and tired. Greek yoghurt seems to be quite filling.

But I would offer extra or a bowl of cereal or anything similar just to make sure your DS isn't still hungry.

00100001 · 24/07/2019 19:54

"But I would offer extra or a bowl of cereal or anything similar just to make sure your DS isn't still hungry."

Why would he be hungry after the tea mentioned, breakfast at home, second breakfast at nursery, snack, lunch and afternoon snack? Confused

00100001 · 24/07/2019 19:55

presumably he ate until full when he had his tea??

Elvesdontdomagic · 24/07/2019 19:57

Is this lighthearted? My kids had hot dog sausages and scrambled egg then a shed load of ice cream covered in m&m's! Do people really worry about this? I don't think you need to justify it tbh!

NerrSnerr · 24/07/2019 20:01

My 2 year old has had apple, a packet of cheese and onion Pom bears and a couple of carrot sticks for tea. Completely refused anything else.