...to not be happy with our honeymoon?

[Irritatednewlywed]

I’m a very new newlywed and we could only afford a honeymoon of four days not too far from home.

During the entire trip ‘D’H was continuously on his phone messaging his two sisters trying to arrange a meet up with them when we got back.

AIBU to be pissed off? Both sisters were on holiday to attend the wedding so I take his point that since he was also on holiday they could all participate in planning equally. On the other hand though, I feel I ANBU since we weren’t just on any regular holiday and how the hell does it take more then ten minutes to arrange a meet up when the day, location and even the part of the day (but not the exact hour) is agreed?

DH says I’m being entirely unreasonable to complain we haven’t had much of a honeymoon.

Whatever the reason he was on the phone, if he was on it so much he was ignoring you, yanbu

Yeah I wouldn't be happy either.

How bizarre, as you’ve said, arranging a meet up doesn’t take much more than 10 minutes. Perhaps he didn’t find the choice of destination particularly interesting and he was bored so was on his phone constantly. He definitely didn’t spend 4 day’s messaging non stop just to agree a time for a family meet-up but whatever he was doing, it was really bad of him to ignore you. I would be livid!

There was definitely nothing else going on in the messages. He read them all to me, every single bloody one. And the destination was his choice!