NC for this.
Brief backstory DP had an EA 2 years ago. I found out and our 14 year relationship very nearly ended because of it. I'd like to say we'd worked hard to make it work but aside from him (until now) not appearing to be up to anything nothing else has changed.
Friday evening we were at a school function and I'm chatting to some school mums and realise he's not around. I go looking for him and he's stood in the corner of the school hall on his phone. He hangs up when he sees me coming over then immediate goes on the defensive about not knowing anyone there. I told him he's being ridiculous and he storms off in the car leaving me and my youngest daughter there. After an hour I text him to come back as we want to go home.
No explanation not a word spoken Friday night. Very little said Saturday or today. He takes himself to the gym at 4pm today and rolls in at 7.30pm with empty McD's bag. Just as I take his dinner out the oven!!
I'm fuming (not just at the wasted dinner) but his general attitude this past week.
I've told him I'm not going on holiday next Sunday. I can't think of anything worse right now.
Yes I know there are bigger issues and I suspect I will be calling time on things once him and children come back from hols