Aibu to ask what have been the lowest points and highest points of your life so far?

[TwinkleWings]

Title says it all really!

The highs have been my children and DH.

The lowest point is now. I lost my mum suddenly and I struggle with chronic pain because of arthritis. I would readily bow out if it wasn’t for my kids and DH.

Highest - emigrating to Australia (with DH and kids)

Lowest - being diagnosed with a rare form of breast cancer three days after waking up with a red sore boob (and no other indication that anything was wrong)

Highest ......... Graduating in 1974 and marrying my long term boyfriend in 1975 (44 years ago yesterday)
Lowest ........ Our DD had a nasty road traffic accident in 1986.
Thank god she recovered well and is now HOY at the school where DH and I went back in the 60's.
We've had a lovely life all in all.

Why on earth wouldn't you reveal things on an anonymous forum?!

I can't believe anyone in the whole wide world doesn't know MN is not an anonymous forum.
▪MN has had several security breaches in recent times.

▪Thousands of posters had their details published online.
▪Threads have been lifted and published in the daily mail, other papers and websites on a regular basis.
▪ Posters have been outed and contacted in real life.

Highest - having my DD and having a proper family with my DP

Lowest - losing my dad last month

Highest: Giving birth to my beautiful DD.
Lowest: Losing my Dad.

Highest: Bringing my premature twins home from hospital after a four month NICU stay (and every day since - they’re now thriving toddlers).

Lowest: Losing my third child, my second son, to stillbirth at 42 weeks earlier this year.

Lowest: post natal depression
Highest: now, coming out the other side and enjoying my beautiful family

Highest - Having my DS

Lowest - my childhood trauma

One of my worst (not my worst) ..was on here. Under a different name. but I posted a problem I had...apparently my wording was wrong... I was making people feel bad with my big problem due to my wording. Ignore what I was saying my problem was....I was called out and abused because of my wording it. Horrible problem ignored. Grammar pulled apart. Me pulled apart.
I have never walked away from a social interaction (real or online) feeling so terrible. No one in real life would ever say that. Here on the internet they feel like they have no boundaries because they are anonymous.
Until you experience it you don't know the harm it causes.

sorry that was only my lowest. will do my highest soon. :)

Lowest: out-of-the-blue deaths of two of my dearest friends.
Highest: finally getting together with my Ms Right 19 years ago and having a great life with her.