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Do I tell my boss??

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Posey67 · 20/07/2019 11:01

Long time poster, but I have name changed as some of the info may be outing.
I'll try and not drip feed, but this may be a long one!!

I work in a multi story office and training facility and have worked there roughly 5 years. My manager and her DH also work there (not together, on different departments on a different floor)
Roughly 2 years ago, there was a horrible rumour circulating the entire office that my managers DH was unfaithful and cheated on her with another colleague (other woman also worked on a different department- so her and manager never crossed paths)
I dont know the ins and outs, but they're back together and no word was mentioned and OW appears to have left the company.

Fast forward 2 years and I'm on my lunch, it was raining and didnt want to go outside to walk around the grounds, so decided to walk around the internal buildings.
The interior is huge, with tons of rooms and office spaces plus endless corridors.
I walk to the end of the corridor and decide to turn right through the double doors which leads to our training offices. (These offices were empty today, as the team had finished for the day) so noone should be in there whatsoever. I walked through the doors, and turned down another corridor which leads to our emergency exit.. again, no reason for me or anyone else to be in there, I was Fitbit counting so was wondering around killing time until I had to head back in. It was there where I saw my managers DH, he was with another woman who was leaning against the wall and her DH was leaning over her closely with one arm against the wall. They didnt kiss, or physically touch, but it didnt look right. Why was he leaning into her like that and also hiding away down a section on empty corridors?

I saw him, he saw me. I turned, walked out and returned to my desk. What do I do now? Do I keep my mouth shut? They also have 2 young dd's together so I'm thinking I should keep quiet and mind my own business

OP posts:
PoodleJ · 20/07/2019 11:12

Keep quiet. You’re stirring it. You saw nothing but some body language that you’ve interpreted.
They don’t need the stress in their life and neither do you.
Keep out of it. If it’s another affair it’ll either come out or not but none of that is your business.

TeamUnicorn · 20/07/2019 11:15

Honestly I would just stay out of it. No good will come to you for saying anything and worse case you could end up with no job.

Katxie · 20/07/2019 11:17

I'd definitely keep out of it.

pinkyredrose · 20/07/2019 11:17

Have you been watching Dr Foster?

Custardo · 20/07/2019 11:17

it wont work out well for you if you get involved.

81Byerley · 20/07/2019 11:39

Keep out of it. At the very least, if he is having an affair, or contemplating one, he will be very worried you're going to say something to his wife.

Vossi · 20/07/2019 12:15

Not your circus, not your monkeys.

Ihopeyourcakeisshit · 20/07/2019 12:20

Keep out of it, btw your OP could have been shorter if you'd left out the guided tour of your building.

Dippypippy1980 · 20/07/2019 12:50

Stay out of this. It’s not work related.

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