Want to scream very loudly

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Arghhhhhhhhhh

Staying with my friends for a few days
Just got here and already

My friends husband is trying to talk me out of Pursuing a case against my ex for abuse and attempted murder
Wtaf

I am sick of it !!

Telling me to drop it
What's the point
Blah blah
Focus on your new life ??!!

How is this ok??!

I dont wish to discuss this with you.
Why do you ask?
Im not interested in your opinion.
This discussion is over.

I meant to say these sentences might stop him. Or you could just leave.

It's not OK ☹️ it's your life not his. Tell him to button it!

I would leave.

You were violently attacked/abused by you ex. So much so that you have a court case?

I would tell him to shut his mouth and I would leave.

What a dick.

He's trying to help??

Not sure what he thinks he is doing

He fcking picked me up from the hospital the day the scumbag tried to kill me

He was there the day he threw my daughter across the room

What is going on
Totally minimising it all

Like - eh not that big of a deal
All these domestics
Police don't care
Cps will never Put this though

Blah blah

Well - eh thanks you just made me EVEN more determined now
Well done !!

It never even occurred to me that I could take my ex to court for trying to kill me. Now he’s dead and I’ve missed my chance. Don’t be put off. If your ex had tried to kill your friend’s husband, would he still want it hushed up?

The man's an insensitive bore. What's your friend saying about this? Tell him to mind his own business and stop minimising what happened to you or you'll leave. Outrageous!

Yes very true

Why should I let him off

Assaulted my baby at 7 weeks old !!

Tried to kill me but then tried to make it all out to be my fault

But really this man now thinks I'm wasting my time!! What an assault

He just told me he is going to get his other friend to call me up also (apparently his other friend has a legal qualification and can reiterate that I'm doing the wrong thing)
What is wrong with the world
Some people just leave me speechless

Just shut it down. He is trying to have your best interests at heart but you need justice. When he brings it up out your palm up and say I'm not going to talk about this anymore. What does your sister make of it?

My friend is mortified but saying nothing f

She is too embarrassed

I'm being quite polite because he has helped me previously

Now he is taking me by surprise as I just don't get why all of a sudden. He is saying all this

He is not friends with my ex
Never has been

Total nonsense

Not listening any more

This needs to be done to protect my daughter and the other potential innocent ladies he will no doubt target

Tell him to fuck off. Pack your stuff up and go home. Your friend should be ashamed of herself allowing him to speak to you like this.

i'd say " i don't want to speak about this anymore. i don't need your opinion thank you"

then he will waffle some shit and you say..." i don't want to speak about this anymore. i don't need your opinion thank you"

then he wafles more shit and you say......." i don't want to speak about this anymore. i don't need your opinion thank you"

you jus repeat, you dont deviate, just repeat. he'll get the message afte 10 mins guarenteed. but you must not deviate

Is he potentially a witness, given that he saw your ex attack your daughter? Maybe he's worried about that and therefore hoping to persuade you to drop it?

His wife has been called

He was at the house the day he assaulted my daughter not present to see or hear it happen

I think he just thinks - eh another old domestic
Shut up
Put up

Draw a line under it all and be happy you are still alive ?!!???😪

So if his mother or wife we assaulted and hospitalised he do nothing?
He doesn't want be be involved further.
Keep strong,you ,your daughter and other women need your ex dealing with.

He doesn't want to get dragged into your domestic. It's understandable but pretty shitty.

Fucking hell OP, why haven't you either told him to shut up, he's not helping, or walked out, or both?

And now he's getting another man to harass you too? Tell him you don't give permission for him to give his friend your number.

Also, tell him he's part of the problem why women don't get the justice they deserve.

Sound like he just can't be bothered with the court case itself and he's trying to get you to drop it. What does his wife say? Has she told her husband to leave you alone? Just thank him for his input but say you're going to court and nothing or no one is going to change your mind and be stern.

Thank you guys

Not speaking to him about it

End of

What a cheeky f
:(

Good for you. Hope his OH has a word with him x

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