Born 1961. Celtic (milk bottle white, freckles, reddish hair etc). Lived abroad as a baby; spent my teens at boarding school 'tanning' with oil - remained milkbottle white underneath the burn.
First melanoma 1986 - stage 3. RADICAL surgery involving skin grafts, hideous scarring.
2nd melanoma 2013 - stage 2? removed via excision, much less radical treatment, minor scarring.
In between, gave birth to two red heads - never ever burned on my watch, and learning to love their own skin tone!
Cancer Research (I think) has launched 'Own Your Tone', a campaign to get people to enjoy being the skin colour they are, which I hope will work, because let's face it, no matter how pretty a golden glow is, some of us will never achieve it.
And if anyone's interested, I discovered a brand of sun protection clothing for adults recently called Coolibar - bought a wonderful knee length, long sleeve cardi type thing with a hood which saves slathering on the lotion, and is both miraculously cool when it is hot and a nice extra layer if the breeze is a bit chill. (No, I dont work for them!!)