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To bring this dog back to the UK

31 replies

Rockcar101 · 16/07/2019 19:44

Just been on holiday to Turkey , while we were there a group of dogs were hanging around the villa . Second evening what we think was the mother came really close to us with 2 puppies , then promptly buggered off without puppies One looked really unwell with injuries one much bigger and looked ok and quite happily ran around Took them both to the vets the next morning , one puppy died the other was declared ok . We started her vaccinations tick protected and contacted one of the few Animal charities in the area who said what we already knew and we had done our best and to put her back where she was and hopefully she would rejoin the group or do her own thing . We did pay for the charity to trap and neuter 2 of the other dogs they managed to get too and for a spey for her when she was old enough .
The little dog seemed to decide the villa was where she lived and spent 2 nights sat by the door crying .playing on the patio with the children in the daytime . by which point we gave up and brought her in . 🙀. She was a great houseguest for 12 days , housetrained herself , very affectionate, played beautifully with the children .slept quietly at night Then of course reality bites we are going home ! We have left her in a boarding kennels recommended by the rescue organisation with travel prep being undertaken for travel to the U.K. in 4 months time as Turkey not an EU country we can’t bring her in on a pet passport . She is apparently happy and healthy , clean bill of health from the vets .

I’m worried , she really is a lovely little dog but is obviously totally missing out on essential early socialisation being in a boarding kennel till she is 7 months old . The kennels are taking her out for walks and she plays well with the other dogs in there . She has a Parguard collar on to protect her against tick borne diseases They send videos , they probably charge me another £200 for them 😂 I’m prepared for hiccups she isn’t going to rock up here after her (extremely expensive !) flight and be just fine with it all but she really has no alternative there is no where to go and she never did seem very streetwise, just like a standard puppy ( vets reckon mum is a dumped pet )
We were looking at getting a dog at the end of the summer when I reduce my hours at work so realistically a puppy /young dog is no issue someone will be at home and we are prepared for the chaos and have had a dog until recently when our old boy was PTS.
This was not in our plan but I’m not sure what I can do , she had no future In Turkey and I can’t face putting her back on streets . She really is lovely and very affectionate to people.

Aibu for even attempting to bring her back over here to stay with us ? Has anyone else ever done anything as daft and it’s worked out !

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Rockcar101 · 16/07/2019 19:45

Lordy sorry that’s so long .. thank you if you read to the end of it 🙀

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catofdoom · 16/07/2019 19:47

Aw that's lovely. Maybe people will tell you you're doing the wrong thing but I don't think you are.

MadCatEnthusiast · 16/07/2019 19:49

I would do the same thing if I saw a young kitten abroad and could afford it. You’re effectively rescuing a pup destined to be out on the road.

Sarahlou63 · 16/07/2019 19:49

Go for it! My mother found a stray here in Portugal and 7 years later the dog is living a life of luxury in Switzerland. Also a family from the Isle of Man smuggled 3 puppies there found here back to their home (not recommended!).

CoolCarrie · 16/07/2019 19:50

Do it! You are a star for doing this to help her and she sounds like a wonderful dog. In your shoes I would definitely give her a loving home. Our little dog is a rescue and she is bright , affectionate and very cute.

Thefemalekeithrichards · 16/07/2019 19:50

I think you are an angel for doing this personally and im sure you will have a friend for life. Are you able to go and visit her interim ?, I know of a charity that rehomes dogs and pups from Cambodia very successfully (cost around £700,) so turkey is not that far. Best wishes

MadCatEnthusiast · 16/07/2019 19:50

Shame, the UK doesn’t allow pets to travel in cabin when Europe does. It would cut a lot of costs I guess?

Thefemalekeithrichards · 16/07/2019 19:52

And I will just add 'photos please' xx

starzig · 16/07/2019 19:53

Please don't. The UK has too many dogs

cookielove · 16/07/2019 19:54

Awww you are amazing!!!

fleshmarketclose · 16/07/2019 19:55

On my walks with our dog we often meet up with somebody who brought home the street dog they met on holiday. He's a lovely dog, it cost them about £2k altogether.

Honeyroar · 16/07/2019 19:56

I'd do it in a heartbeat! One of my rescues was from Romania.

If you're going to do it, get going, it will be more difficult post brexit. Perhaps speak to a Turkish rescue (Google?) and see if they can help with bringing the dog over or give you an insight into what injections and quarantine is needed.

yearinyearout · 16/07/2019 19:57

I'm sure it will work out fine. A friend of mine has adopted a rescue puppy from Crete recently and she's settled in beautifully.

isseywithcats · 16/07/2019 20:01

i adopted a dog from a cyprus rescue she was 8 years old when i adopted her, she had been used as a hunting dog breeder for most of those years, kept in a shed , no human love or affection, then dumped on the streets when she was too old to breed from, yes she had a few issues was very timid, but once she realised i was ok she was such a sweetheart, im sure your pup will be fine especially as hes in proper kennells not a stray hold kennells where care dosent exist

Rockcar101 · 16/07/2019 20:02

I know the U.K. has too many dogs and this is where my problem is morals lies . However world without borders and all that . She is a dog with no home ( who appears to very much want to be with people in a home) and she seems to have chosen us 😳
The animal charity is guiding us , it's not an easy process from Turkey , basically she does her quarrentine over there , 4 months post rabies jab 3 months post blood test to prove she is rabies immune she can travel
and it is indeed costing the best part of £2000 🙀! Most expensive cheapo holiday we booked ... ever 😂
Will see if I can attach a picture of her ..

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adaline · 16/07/2019 20:05

Oh I would do the same, definitely!

We were adopted by a cat on holiday in Lanzarote - came into our villa and slept, ate and everything - was clearly very used to people. If we had the money we'd have brought it here in a heartbeat.

Bless you, you're a good person.

catofdoom · 16/07/2019 20:06

Oh goodness, that's like saying there are people going without here so we shouldn't give to Syria etc!

Kolo · 16/07/2019 20:07

I think that’s such a wonderful thing to do. And I wouldn’t be worried about ‘UK has enough dogs’ type arguments; that dog found you.

HeadsDownThumbsUpEveryone · 16/07/2019 20:08

Please don't. The UK has too many dogs

Why? I'd rather someone like the Op rescued a dog in this situation than added to the hundreds of thousands of puppies being bred by backyard breeders. This dog is already here and deserves a loving home as much as any other. I think its a lovely story and I hope both you and this lovely pup get your happy ending.

catofdoom · 16/07/2019 20:08

Yes some things in life were meant to be. You'd always feel bad if you didn't bring her back. I really wanted to bring a street dog back from Sri Lanka but couldn't afford it.

gubbsywubbsy · 16/07/2019 20:12

Do it ... I have always made animal friends on holibobs and would do this in a heartbeat if dh was on board .. pic pic !! 😍

Cherrypies · 16/07/2019 20:15

This is lovely, I wish you all the luck getting her home.
My rescue is from Turkey, a rescue brought her over, she is lovely.

BlueSuffragette · 16/07/2019 20:15

Go for it. Good luck.

TaxiPlease · 16/07/2019 20:18

We were 'chosen' by a street puppy in Malta, brought her home and she turned out to be the loveliest, easiest dog we've ever had, so I'd say go for it! Sometimes these things are just meant to be.
Several months in kennels isn't ideal, but it sounds like she's being taken good care of. Good luck!

Magstermay · 16/07/2019 20:19

Is there an option to fly her over and quarantine in UK so you can at least visit her regularly?
I wouldn’t usually advocate rescues from abroad but this is a bit different to just deciding it’s a nice idea and picking one off the Internet.