NC as I’ve previously posted about family life.
My DH is a lovely man, great father, my best friend - at home. When we are out he is rude and stressed. He gets terrible road rage which makes me anxious. He then gets annoyed at me for being afraid in the car.
For example yesterday we had a day out with the DC, lunch, feeding the ducks etc we then had to meet family for dinner. All day he was sweet until we reached the dinner venue when it was like a switch. He was snappy and quite aggressive towards me. I tried to pacify him at first and eventually told me to stop speaking to me like that and back off. I’m sure our family could have noticed but may not have yesterday. The drive home was stressful he was angry and antsy to get home. Then fine again once we were in the house. He hasn’t apologized and is acting like nothing has happened.
It’s my birthday next weekend - I don’t want a family day out as it will end with me being snapped at and feeling like shit.
How can I address this? He’s two different men.
Not to DF but he is a big weed smoker. I’ve never smoked so I’m unsure of the mood affects. Is it just that he wants to get home to smoke?