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To refuse a scan at 38 weeks?

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Moggymorn · 15/07/2019 10:20

I'm booked in for a c-section in two days. I have an anterior placenta and a breech baby, and I have a lot of problems with movements due to both of these factors. I had my last growth scan a week ago today, everything was fine, consultant advised no more scans were needed as although I have problems not feeling movements, baby is moving and weighs an estimated healthy 8lbs and no causes for concern. I went in on Wednesday with reduced movements, after not feeling anything for 12 hours and I went in again on Saturday for the same reason. All day Sunday I could feel the movements, and today he's wiggling away again. It just depends on his position whether I feel anything or not.

They've phoned me this morning to come in for a scan in a couple of hours, which is standard procedure after two episodes of reduced movements. I said that I'm happy with his movements today and yesterday, and my section is in two days so I'm happy to pass on the scan. They said I can reject the appointment but it will be against medical advice.

AIBU to reject it? It's DHs last day at work, he's got so much to do he can't come home and take me, so I'd have to drive myself 50 minutes there and back, at 38+4. I've not driven for a week or so now as I'm so huge and uncomfortable. I really don't think babies at risk, it's just the words 'against medical advice' that has made me doubt myself.

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AintNobodyHereButUsChickens · 16/07/2019 08:07

Congratulations! He's absolutely scrumptious ❤️

Nikhedonia · 16/07/2019 08:14

What a gorgeous baby! Congratulations OP! Thanks

Huggybear16 · 16/07/2019 08:35

Oh wow, what a cutie. Congratulations

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 16/07/2019 08:42

He is gorgeous Flowers

TheRealShatParp · 16/07/2019 08:46

Congratulations, OP. So glad you went for the scan. He’s gorgeous.

BlingLoving · 16/07/2019 09:33

He's a cutie!!!

MarshaBradyo · 16/07/2019 09:38

Beautiful

DobbyTheHouseElk · 16/07/2019 09:39

Beautiful baby. Congratulations

isitwhatitis · 16/07/2019 10:05

Gorgeous little boy. What are you calling him?

TreeSunset · 16/07/2019 14:26

Huge congratulations, he’s lovely

McShakey · 16/07/2019 14:27

He’s gorgeous! Congratulations Op!Flowers

Branleuse · 16/07/2019 18:06

hes so beautiful

Mummyshark2018 · 16/07/2019 18:28

So glad to hear you went in. He is just beautiful! Congratulations

IncrediblySadToo · 16/07/2019 20:59

cird was wrapped twice around his nevk 😳😳

Thank god he’s ok 😊what are you calling him? Lucky?

He is absolutely gorgeous!! 💕

forgivemeimnew · 16/07/2019 21:05

Congratulations! He’s absolutely gorgeous Flowers

Cheeringmeup · 16/07/2019 21:16

He’s an absolute wee beauty - congratulations.
Enjoy your new addition x

SinkGirl · 16/07/2019 21:17

Thank goodness OP. I felt my heart racing reading your thread and realising it was from yesterday and you might have missed it.

One of my twins had an anterior placenta and stopped moving and I had no idea as the other twin moved so much I thought he was both of them. I only found out as I became unwell and they checked me out. He survived but has multiple disabilities and no idea if there’s any correlation.

To anyone reading this in future, there’s nothing you should take more seriously in pregnancy than your baby’s movements - so glad you went and your beautiful baby is safe Flowers

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