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AIBU to want to be treated right

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Notworthy · 15/07/2019 05:41

I probably already know what you are all going to reply, but I could be wrong. I very often am according to my DH. So yesterday we had a lovely relaxing day watching TV together (doesn't happen very much). Then when it came to bed time off we went to bed, well he just strolled up and I locked up and took up some things, anyway when I got upstairs my DS was awake (he's 4) and said a werewolf had run in his bedroom, so I started to settle him back down when my DH shouted me from the bedroom. I responded with 'hold on a minute' and apx a minute or 2 later I went into the bedroom to see what he wanted. He was lying on the bed shouting well isn't it obvious (no it's not that 🙈) and why should i have to wait. So I proceeded to explain that our DS needed settling after his werewolf experience. He began ranting that I should've shouted 'yes' when he called me instead of 'hold on' anyway he wanted the duvet that he had taken down stairs to watch the tv, but if I'd have shouted yes I wouldn't have been able to hear his request anyway as I was too far away from the bedroom. Now, why couldn't he have got it, why is he screaming at me for putting our DS first. Anyway went onto rant, ruined the nice day, and needless to say I wasnt allowed to sleep in the bedroom.

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NerrSnerr · 15/07/2019 05:45

You wasn't allowed to sleep in the bedroom? A marriage should be a partnership not a dictatorship.

Personally I don't think a knobhead will change their ways. If you want to be treated right you need to find someone who respects women.

AlwaysCheddar · 15/07/2019 06:01

I’d kick him out! That’s disgraceful behaviour.

Knitclubchatter · 15/07/2019 06:10

“Not ALLOWED” to sleep in your own bed!!! Cold day in hell.

Cheery145 · 15/07/2019 06:13

He is behaving abusively, expecting to be put before your child then bullying you out of your own bed because you didn’t. Please seek help so that you and your dc don’t need to live like this. Good luck xx

lyralalala · 15/07/2019 06:16

What do you mean you weren’t allowed to sleep in your bedroom?

Why does he get to choose?

Are you often not allowed to do things OP?

Gatehouse77 · 15/07/2019 06:17

Nope, time to move on. Before I even read what happened this was a red flag “I very often am according to DH”. He’s running you down.

GertrudeCB · 15/07/2019 06:28

needless to say I wasnt allowed to sleep in the bedroom
Very very worrying that you seem to expect this treatment.
He is a nasty piece of work.

Benes · 15/07/2019 06:29

This is abuse.

I'm guessing you often aren't allowed to do things.

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