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AIBU?

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To take my daughter out of nursery because of balloons

181 replies

Theharvestwidow · 14/07/2019 22:38

My husband is a farmer and today came home with a balloon with long ribbon attached, which he rescued from a calf trying to eat it in the field. We have realised it is from DDs local nursery as part of a mass balloon release (this is the second such event in the space of a few months). It seems this time each balloon had a child’s name and what they want to be when they grow up and were released as part of class ‘graduating’. The previous event last month was I think to raise money for local firefighters, they wanted us to donate £1 for a balloon but I refused to take part. It’s a big chain nursery.

Husband and I are obviously lovers of the countryside (and the planet in general!) and I feel really strongly about cutting down on the use of plastics and littering/rubbish etc. I’m going to take the balloon in to nursery and write a strongly worded email to head office as I wonder if this kind of activity is dictated by some central policy, but I do feel in this day and age with so much more focus and understanding on environmental issues, that it’s a bit nuts to still be encouraging our next generation to do this and want to consider looking for a different nursery which acts more responsibly...AIBU?

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DickZillaofTheVilla · 14/07/2019 22:39

YANBU they should be banned

SunInTheSkyYouKnowHowIFeel · 14/07/2019 22:40

I'd wait for their response first before thinking about moving your child out of an otherwise good nursery.

HoneysuckIejasmine · 14/07/2019 22:40

YANBU at all.

theWarOnPeace · 14/07/2019 22:41

YANBU. I’ve had it with the recklessness. Tell them that what they’re doing is beyond pointless and very much in the wrong.

GreasedPiglet · 14/07/2019 22:41

Yes, this is really irresponsible nowadays! Can you word the letter carefully so that you at least give them the chance to think about whether they want to reconsider their policy?

NeutralJanet · 14/07/2019 22:41

YANBU. Balloon releases are totally irresponsible and I wouldn't want to give my money to a nursery that encourages it. They could easily have done the same thing in another way, like writing the children's ambitions on a chalkboard and take a picture of them holding it.

KelpianCasserole · 14/07/2019 22:42

I think show the Nursery Manager some photos of the harm caused and ask them to lead the way in finding an alternative? They almost certainly just don't realise the problem.

MsTSwift · 14/07/2019 22:42

Yanbu how thick can you get?

bridgetreilly · 14/07/2019 22:42

I would expect them to stop causing such wilful damage to the environment and I would go in and cause as much fuss as possible until they change their policy on this. And if they don't, yes, I would withdraw my child as publicly and with as much fuss as I could manage - articles in the local press and so on. It's really disgusting.

ReganSomerset · 14/07/2019 22:42

Wow, very unaware of them. It's pretty well known that balloon releases are a bad thing.

SunInTheSkyYouKnowHowIFeel · 14/07/2019 22:42

Sorry posted too soon... I do agree with you that their balloon releases do seem very out of touch though, hopefully when you educate them about the environmental impact they will have a re-think. Perhaps if they don't seem receptive to your email get in touch with the head office and ask for their thoughts.

cakeandchampagne · 14/07/2019 22:42

Maybe you could contact a couple of big environmental groups about this nursery and their balloon releases.

HeadintheiClouds · 14/07/2019 22:43

What an imbecilic thing to do (the nursery). Have you told them how distasteful you found this? Dreadful.

44PumpLane · 14/07/2019 22:43

YANBU, there is no excuse for this kind of behaviour anymore. We can't claim a lack of education in this country in this day and age.

My kids love balloons so I have already started investigating biodegradable/compostable options for their birthday. If it's not possiblw they won't have balloons.

There are many things nursery could have done instead of a balloon release--how irresponsible.

OrchidInTheSun · 14/07/2019 22:43

YANBU - I can't believe people still do this. And it's particularly irresponsible when small children are involved.

JocastaJones · 14/07/2019 22:44

It is wrong and they shouldn't be doing it but a more softly softly approach might work better. You can get them to change while also maintaining a good relationship.

gamerchick · 14/07/2019 22:44

When you complain ask them how they would feel if one of their balloons causes fatal injury to one of the livestock and how would they like to be billed for it. Or words to that effect.

Some people only understand money and how much it will cost them.

TitianaTitsling · 14/07/2019 22:44

YADNBU! I hate these- got DH to half climb a tree the other day to remove a balloon that was tangled in the branches as it was just over neighbours field, cows are curious buggers so if it had fallen in they would definitely have been over at it.

Treaclesweet · 14/07/2019 22:45

Listen to response then complain local paper etc, we have a local plastic free campaign group also maybe you do too. Anything to pile the pressure on. So irritating when everyone else is trying!

cakesandphotos · 14/07/2019 22:45

YANB, I would be appalled. It's madness that people are still doing this despite all the knowledge we have about the impact. Definitely write a strongly worded letter. I hope the clad is ok, a local farmer to us found one of his dead with a balloon in its stomach Sad

leckford · 14/07/2019 22:45

The balloon releases are almost as damaging to wildlife and other animals as chinese lanterns and should be banned.

MrsMozartMkII · 14/07/2019 22:47

Bloody balloon releases! Should be fucking illegal.

VampirateQueen · 14/07/2019 22:47

Take the balloon back to nursery and tell them where you found it, ask them if they know what damage they are causing and if that doesn't work tell them that if another ends up in your field and a calf does eat it you will be asking them to reimburse you for it.

PooWillyBumBum · 14/07/2019 22:48

YANBU - if they don't promise to mend their ways I'd take to social media. Not acceptable.

itsabongthing · 14/07/2019 22:48

YANBU it’s surprising they’re still doing it as most people seem aware now that it is harmful.

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