My younger sister has moved around a lot for her job. She has no children and lives with her less than satisfactory partner. She is now in the Isle of Man so we dont see her much. My little boy is two nearly three and she adores him. No issues at all there. She is a very intense type of person but it is all very well meant. She is one of the kindest people I know. The only issue I have is that I get a new friend on Facebook days later they are a mutual friend, I put a comment on some bodies photo soon after its followed by one from her. My cousin is in Oz and had children around the same age as my son so despite the distance we are close and I always ask her how the children are doing and plan to visit next March. Again she comments on that too. I added a status about something funny my son did today and it was about him pretending he was one of my other family members.-instantaneous comment about the hilarious conversation she had earlier with him. He only said Hi. Then three messages on personal messenger saying how funny and lovely he is. I just feel like she is marking her territory both of me and my son. It's not as bad as it sounds at all but it just irks me a little. I just wo dered what others thought. So my AIBU is AIBU to be irked? Or it this just a case of my sister feeling left out when she has no reason to at all. I'm just into soppy "we miss you" messages.