Me and OH are going through a rough patch both love each other dearly but kind of in a rut he's not living at home with us at the moment. He keeps mentioning how much he misses the old me. When I met him DS was 8 months I was definitely more fun and ''sexy'' as he would say. We now have DD together im in full mum mode not to bothered about a full face of makeup or skimpy outfits or going to the gym everyday or even getting my nails done every week. Also when we first met I was living with my mum I didn't have all these things to do that I have now.
AIBU to think its just not doable I want to somehow be a bit like the old me but not in the ways he wants.