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There’s a posh thread, a common thread, but what makes a person classy?

15 replies

Singlebutmarried · 12/07/2019 16:08

You can have class whether posh or common.

I can’t be relied on not to burp (by accident) socrherefore class passes me by 😂

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MrsTerryPratchett · 12/07/2019 16:10

Being able to address difficult subjects without offending anyone but while staying ethical. A skill that entirely passes me by.

Being able to keep alcohol in the house without drinking it. I can do this.

Not looking hot and sweaty. Nope.

Being friendly to everyone without being a mug. Somewhat.

flowery · 12/07/2019 16:11

Being kind and considerate and polite to absolutely everyone.

WinnieTheW0rm · 12/07/2019 16:11

Not talking about class?

MissSueFlay · 12/07/2019 16:11

Being well-spoken in whatever regional accent you have.
Not dropping letters, or dropping in wrong words / wrong tenses.
Not being shouty and loud, not swearing loads.

formerbabe · 12/07/2019 16:12

Manners

Classic clothing

No overt displays of emotion

Well groomed

mbosnz · 12/07/2019 16:12

Being able to put people at their ease, and talk about things that interest them, with people of all ages.

Being able to gloss over awkward situations in a way that enables a person who has made a mahoosive blunder not sink through the floor.

IhaveALooBrush · 12/07/2019 16:13

Diplomacy

Pootles34 · 12/07/2019 16:15

I went on a v. rough boat trip - friend on the boat managed to be sick over the side of the boat without anyone noticing. That's classy.

MrsTerryPratchett · 12/07/2019 16:15

I've thought of one. I was shown around two homeless shelters by two separate men. The first, treated people differently. Not classy. The second, I had no idea who was a client, psychologist, worker or visitor. He introduced them all warmly and using their name. "Terry this is Brian. How are you Brian, I haven't seen yo in ages" type of thing to everyone. Pure class.

flowery · 12/07/2019 16:21

”Being well-spoken in whatever regional accent you have....Not dropping letters”

Not possible to do both, not in my accent anyway. Guess that means I’m not classy Grin

tiredandworried123 · 12/07/2019 16:22

Never make anyone feel stupid and be polite to everyone, even those who don't deserve it. I can do the first but sometime struggle with the second if someone is an arse 😬

joyfullittlehippo · 12/07/2019 16:23

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growlingbear · 12/07/2019 16:50

Spontaneous, unflash generosity
Graciousness with everyone they meet
Good grooming in any style that suits them

Havingarethink · 12/07/2019 17:17

When holding Fort, giving eye contact to everyone in the group, not just the ones you like.
Not engaging in malicious gossip.

mbosnz · 12/07/2019 17:19

Being inclusive, rather than cliquey, and welcoming to new and nervous people.

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