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To be annoyed at my ex messaging me today?

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Justwannavent · 11/07/2019 19:25

This is really just me venting. Also sorry if this sounds like I'm a teenager, I promise I'm not. I'm the grand scheme of things this is not a big deal, just want to vent about a stupid text.

Ex and I had a very brief relationship last year, only dating for about 4 months. In that time we had made it official. We broke up due to something really silly. (long story not relevant) We kept seeing each other for a little while afterwards as fwb but it was a bit too difficult for me as I still had feelings. We ended on really good terms though so I kept him on social media.

Today I got a sexual explicit text from ex about what he wanted to do to me, no hi how are you, just straight to the point. Literally haven't spoken in 7 months.
I reply with woah that's random and he goes into more bloody detail!

After his charming message I reply bluntly 'I'm in a relationship now' and he replies saying he'll have to make do with the old explicit photos I've sent him when we were in a relationship. I don't reply and then he messages me saying he wouldn't have propositioned me if he knew I wasn't single. Didn't reply to that either.

I started dating someone 5 months ago and I've seen on ex's social media he's been in a relationship for about the same amount of time too. His relationship status is set to private but it doesn't take a genius to work that's he's in a relationship by looking at all his tags. Poor girl.

Also I know he knows I'm in a relationship because he accidentally liked and unliked a post of mine.

I'm sure it wasn't a drunk text either.

He was honestly a really nice bloke when we were dating. Feel bad for his girlfriend.

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justasking111 · 11/07/2019 19:26

block him, as you say poor girlfriend.

Parker231 · 11/07/2019 19:28

Why are you still on social media with him?

Justwannavent · 11/07/2019 19:35

Yeah I'll block him now as I didn't realise what a twat he was but as I said we ended on good terms so didn't think of taking him off social media, we weren't together that long so it didn't take that long to get over it

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Justwannavent · 11/07/2019 19:36

Just makes me lose faith in men

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ElfridaEtAl · 11/07/2019 22:26

Screenshot the messages and send to the girlfriend. What a twat.

Pinktinker · 11/07/2019 22:28

Block him. He was never a boyfriend really, just a fling.

CalmdownJanet · 11/07/2019 22:29

Does he actually have explicit photos of you?

BananasAreTheSourceOfEvil · 11/07/2019 22:36

Just block him, feel sorry for the girlfriend. At least now you know he is a massive tool and youre well off away from him.

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