I'm basically hoping to hear that I am.
I have a friend whom I text all the time. She does the same, though we rarely meet up despite living close to each other. We are good enough friends that we recently went away for a long weekend.
I'm going through serious relationship problems and I worry that I am too needy. Still, I think I take an interest in her life and I always am open to discussing concerns etc that she brings up
Today I messaged her something that was related to it being my birthday, though that wasn't really the point (it was something weird my husband said and did about my birthday). She didn't process it at first, but then wrote something like, "OH, it's your birthday. My brain isn't working right today."
She never said anything like happy birthday etc.
I am not angry, but I am anxious. Should I read something deeper into this? Perhaps she is sick of my crap and doesn't want to encourage me by wishing me a happy birthday? Perhaps I am just annoying to her?
Alternatively, perhaps my extreme insecurity and anxiety mean I am being very silly to even think about this?