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To be getting irritated with colleague’s time monitoring

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Everythingnow12 · 09/07/2019 17:33

I work in a team of accountants. 5 accountants, 2 seniors, and our manager is in another location. I’m one of the seniors, but have no line management responsibilities.

One of the team seems to be obsessed about being critical of the other team members behind their back and particularly about what hours they are working (and what they are being paid,and sick leave)

We have standard hours (ie 40 per week), but overall our manager is fine about being flexible about start and finish times: so long as we do our work and work the full hours)

My colleague, Chris is not a senior, but keeps moaning about what hours others do; if they leave early or are a wee bit late, or if they are looking on the internet too much. He moans to me about it: ie “Andy (the other senior) left at 4 today.” “Laura was 5 minutes late this morning”.

I have told him that as far as I know they have worked their hours, and I’m not there to sit and watch what time others come and go.

He makes pointed remarks about people being off with “stress” but having nothing wrong with them (I have MH problems and have been off on sick leave earlier this year: HR and line manager were supportive)

He tried to stir trouble by telling me that the other senior complained that I’m on a higher salary than them (I joined the company later) and then got the same salary as me. I said “oh that’s excellent, I’d have done the same, well done Andy”

Recently I’ve reduced my hours and he comments constantly on when I start, when I finish, and when I go for lunch. “Oh, you’re 10 minutes late”, “oh, why are you working late?”

I usually just ignore, but honestly, it’s getting on my nerves now.

Aibu to be irritated with him

OP posts:
ScrommidgeClaryAndSpunt · 09/07/2019 20:26

Big poster on his desk:

NO1 LIKES A GRASS M8

CoraPirbright · 10/07/2019 08:10

if he’s not moaning about colleagues he’s having a good moan about family and friends

Aaaah! So he’s one of those tedious fuckers who like to moan about everything! It’s not just colleague/time-keeping-centric - it could simply be his (ghastly) personality! I still agree with other posters that it will affect morale so to raise it as a performance issue is the way to go.

Unfinishedkitchen · 10/07/2019 08:15

He’s insecure because he’s shit at his job so he tries to get other people to look bad.

CycleWoman · 10/07/2019 08:35

I had someone at work like this. She wasn’t malicious but she could not stop commenting on my activities or whereabouts.

You’re late this morning CycleWoman

Are you having coffee now CycleWoman? Didn’t you just have one?

Lunch at 12 CycleWoman that’s early!

I’m surprised she didn’t comment on my trips to the loo.

It’s very annoying. I tried to zone out in the end

EBearhug · 10/07/2019 08:37

As long as people are on time for meetings and do their total hours, it doesn't matter if they arrive a bit late or a leave a bit early. It would be good for Chris to learn this. In fact, IME, it removes a whole level of stress.

Some months ago, I moved from a time-focussed, micromanaging manager to one who is much more relaxed and mostly just cares about whether you finish particular work or not, not whether you arrived by 08:53 or took 35m14s to complete a task. Coincidentally (or not) my most recent blood pressure tests at the doctor were the lowest they've been in years, and I haven’t made any other lifestyle changes.

Chris should learn to prioritise the important things.

UnderOverUnderRover · 10/07/2019 08:46

People used to comment on my part time hours all the time, how lucky I was.

Except I worked full time and could easily do 45+ hours a week. I worked in the office 2 days and had a strict 3 pm finish to collect DC after starting at 7 am and the other days I worked from home, and usually did a couple of hours in the evenings.

I used to be surprised when people mentioned PT because I wouldn't have had a clue what times people outside my team worked!

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