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To call the police on this family?

358 replies

catofdoom · 09/07/2019 12:53

I live on a dirt road. It's single track and very windy. This particular part has a sheer drop off to the ocean.

Driving home with ds yesterday afternoon and out of nowhere two kids (between 10 and 12 I think) jump out at me and start pelting my car with water balloons. Trying to get them through the driver's window. (Luckily they didn't.)

They are my next door neighbours. They're only here for a month in the summer though.

It scared the absolute shit out of me. How I didn't crash in to a tree or go off the road I don't know.

I stopped and told them what a horrible thing to do it was and how dangerous it could have been. They laughed at me and ran off.

I drove home, turned around and drove back to go and speak to their parents (I'd seen the car home.)

Coming back they did it again!

I carried on past their house to go and sit further up the road and have a think. DH then came home and they did it to him too! He got out of the car and they ran off, their Mother was outside, dh told her what they'd been doing and she walked off and slammed the door in his face.

Turns out they did it to my brother in law the day before. They've been sat by the road with a big bucket of water balloons for a couple of days. Their Mother must have know, the only windows of the house and the porch look down at the road.

Anyway, so since we've had no apology. If it were my son I'd have marched him round there furious to apologise.

I want to lodge a complaint with the police (I've already spoken to the local policeman but he's not on duty until tomorrow night.) DH thinks we shouldn't stir things up. I think they could do with a talking to, I'm annoyed their parents clearly don't give a shit. Plus, if it happens again they could cause a nasty accident.

So I guess it's more of a - what would you do?

Also, we're in the States in an extremely low crime area (one burglary in 10 years) so I won't be wasting police time, they'd actually be thrilled to have something to do rather than sit on the side of the road trying to catch speeders. Grin

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YankeeinKingArthursCourt · 10/07/2019 19:04

I'm guessing: Vinal Haven or Mt Desert Island, Maine ? Year-rounders vs "summering" visitors ?

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 10/07/2019 19:08

I’m thinking Ye Olde Stocks with water balloons and rotten tomatoes...

Nearly47 · 10/07/2019 19:35

Call the police. It could cause an accident.

PeppyPiggy · 10/07/2019 19:44

Wow... lady you are composed. I would have snapped. Yes of course you should go to your police, “could cause a nasty accident”.... no it would definitely cause an accident. If they are doing that to every car passing by when they are bored then yes an accident will likely happen, whether the accident is the car swerving or whether the accident is someone getting out their car and whooping them.... police - yes.

Patroclus · 10/07/2019 20:19

This is ruining my Maine image a bit. Where are the endless nephews of Jessica Fletcher bumping people off on boats?

FelicisNox · 10/07/2019 20:23

I've really enjoyed this thread. Grin

ShesABelter · 10/07/2019 20:39

Oh I loved your ama. So happy to be reading more info about your life and island.

Nearly47 · 10/07/2019 21:21

PatroclusGrin

Palma1 · 10/07/2019 21:35

Ha ha ditto . Sneak up, water bomb them.

Evilspiritgin · 10/07/2019 21:37

I was all for visiting until you mentioned the snakes 🐍 Shock 17!!!!!

itbemay1 · 10/07/2019 22:29

Hey OP I'm in London, was seriously considering a house swap until you mentioned snakes!! Sorry!

flowergrrl77 · 10/07/2019 22:58

SEVENTEEN snakes? /shudder/

GL OP!

Luaa · 10/07/2019 23:01

Are these snakes in the house or in the garden?

MissConductUS · 10/07/2019 23:05

Hey OP I'm in London, was seriously considering a house swap until you mentioned snakes!!

There are many risks involved in visiting the colonies. Grin

In all seriousness they are likely common garter snakes:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Garter_snake

The are quite shy and harmless. I have them in the garden here in NY too.

Reallyevilmuffin · 10/07/2019 23:15

Police possibly setting them straight unlike the entitled parent is going to be beneficial for the kids as well as potentially prevent an accident.

DieBabySharkDie · 10/07/2019 23:22

House swap with me!!!!! I live in the middle of 5acres in Essex but only takes me 42mins from my house to Waterloo. Got a 5bed that my mum lives in, my 5bed house that my family live in and a 2bedroom guesthouse...
I’m desperate to visit your place - sounds amazing!!!!!

catofdoom · 10/07/2019 23:25

They are indeed garter snakes. I quite like them. But even I do a little shudder when I see that many at once. They've got a big nest by the chicken house. I think they eat bad bugs though so there's that!

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MissConductUS · 11/07/2019 00:12

I think they eat bad bugs though so there's that!

They do eat bugs. Now if you could only train them to eat goady, entitled, lying summer mums.Grin

BJ1978 · 11/07/2019 00:55

I’d definitely file a police report. It’s dangerous behaviour and absolutely appalling parenting. If someone does die due to their stupid behaviour and you didn’t do all you could it will haunt you.

Nanny0gg · 11/07/2019 10:22

@BJ1978

Have you not noticed that the OP has spoken to the police? And what reaction they got from the kids' parents?

notapizzaeater · 11/07/2019 10:25

Doesn't everyone die in Maine or have I read too many crime novels ?

jwpetal · 11/07/2019 10:57

The police will handle it gently with the children and speak to the parents. It is very dangerous what they are doing.

You could advise the parents that if it happens again to you or any of your guests that you will be calling the police. There is a different relationship and reaction from the police in the US...media exaggeration put aside. Police are willing to do this kind of work to stop further escalation.

TigerTooth · 11/07/2019 11:13

100% Report them - imagine what they’ll move in to next year and the year after if there are no boundaries.

purplecorkheart · 11/07/2019 11:14

Hope they have stopped after the Police Visit.

MadamePompadour · 11/07/2019 11:43

OP, you've written about the island before haven't you? I seem to remember an AMA type thread....the island sounds very similar?

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