Aibu?
So I only have two very good friends. It is all our 30th birthdays this year, mine was February, one in June and the other in August. We don't really do much together because we never have much spare money and someone will always cancel but we do text a lot and they feel like family.
so I've being saying how much I'd love to go to a spa for ages and that we should book one to celebrate all our 30th and they have agreed and said yeah defiantly we will have to get one organised ect.
So on late Friday night I get a text off my friend who's birthday it was in June, saying do you want to go to a spa tomorrow it's 140 pound and you stay over, I said it was way too short notice ( it was my little boys 6th birthday which she knew) and she was like oh ok it's a groupan deal we will do it another time.
I thought it was very strange why she would suddenly do it last minute as I try and organise things all the time and it's always inconvenient. Also I didn't know you could book a groupon deal so last minute.
So the next day I look on fb and there both tagged in at the spa.
I asked them did you book this a while ago and they both said no it was randomly done the night before and they both suddenly found childcare for the weekend ( neither usually can find childcare one of the reasons why we can never do anything)
So I know there both lying to me and I think the friend who's birthday it was in June probably got a voucher for her birthday and decided to take my other friend but I feel really upset because if that was me I wouldn't have being able to just choose one of them I'd have had to take someone completely different or I'd have looked at us all splitting the price three ways so we could all go.
Am I being silly being upset? My anxiety is so bad at the moment and I just can't bring my self to talk to them. If we did things like this all the time it wouldn't matter but there is no way it'll happen now. And as sad as it is I've no one else to go to a spa with.