AIBU to think this is suspicious?

[OpenYourEyes]

My Bf and I see each other most days and always talk several times a day be it phone, text or social media.

He goes out most weekends, not all but most, with his friends. I have DC so go we go out together on average once a month. The day he isn't out with friends he stays at mine but If he has been out drinking he will stay at his own place.

Usually when out with friends he texts me constantly to the extent I have to tell him to go have fun and put the phone away.

Last Friday he went out and I didn't hear from him until 1.30am which I didn't answer because I was asleep.we spent Saturday together and Sunday. Then Monday came and he didn't turn up at dinner time as expected. He text about 8 to say he had fallen asleep after work and was going to just stay home and go back to sleep.

Tuesday I saw him as usual. Wednesday he turned up for an hour and a half then went home at 8.30pm.

Thursday I saw him as usual.

Friday he went to the pub straight from work then phoned me around 8 and caused a row, said I had been snappy with him and if I can't see how I have been then there is no point.

From then I didn't hear from him at all until this morning when he text to say he misses me. We have never gone that long without contact.

So AIBU to suspect he had been with someone else?

We are supposed to be going on holiday together in two weeks.

I would be suspicious too sorry op

Thanks m @Chloe9 it's the change in behaviour which is suspicious to me. It is usually him that initiates contact so much so to hear nothing at all from Friday to Sunday is a huge change.

Yes that's what seems odd to me. There could be something else behind it, though

Yes, of course he is seeing someone else. Its obvious isn't it. It cant be any of the other 101 things that meant he wasnt in contact with you like being busy with family....or being hungover. And did you not try to contact him or is it down to him to contact you first....??

Been there to many times, heard all the excuses and I could still be u asking the question,,, listen to your inner voice u knew what these peeps would say x

It was down to him because he had rung me and caused a row and them told me there is no point.