Long term relationship 3 years own a house together has been so awful the past year. Both don’t agree he’s been horrible I’ve stressed him out etc. When we’ve argued he’s said he’s moving out and leaving at the end of the year when he can. It got said again I realised how un happy I was how I’ve felt single for years as I never saw him and always say at home waiting for him to come home. I’m so happy seeing friends having drinks have had some male attention for the first time in years. On the other hand he’s now at home crying not wanting to leave his bed every time I come home to get some clothes he’s crying the guilt is awful but what did he expect you can’t treat someone like shit and expect me not to let go. He’s had so many chances to change how do I get over the guilt he’s obviously allowed to be up set but I don’t nonwhay to do.