I had a laparoscopy on Friday afternoon and since then I've been in pain,struggling to stand up straight where the cuts are and felt so tired/weak like I have flu.
The hospital said it's normal to feel like this.
I've came to my dads to stay as I live alone and didn't want to be alone.
I'm a full time carer for a grandparent and for the last two days have left that to other family members (as I literally can't stand up)
Today I got up (can stand a little better ) but still feel awful and tired.
My dad straight away rolled his eyes and said
"Just get your clothes on and get some fresh air"
I said I really can't,I don't feel great.
He said "how long you gonna play on this for? When I had a cold the other week I made a effort to go out"
I need a bit more rest(the hospital said at least 72 hours rest)
Believe me if I could go out,I wouldn't choose this.
I slept for 12 hours last night.
It's not even 48 hours since I've had it done.
Aibu to just want to take it easy.
It might be selfish but I've said I won't be looking after anyone till I'm better..if you don't like it tough.
I've came back to bed with a cuppa and Netflix
Am I being selfish here?
Do I try and get dressed and go out?