NC for this as it can be outing.
I am prepared to be told I BU.
My sister is younger than me by more than ten years she is the youngest in the family.
18 months ago we lost our DM
we were all upset but carried on. My sis seems to have changed.
Before she was jolly and aloof and to be honest you could never take her seriously.
She was so jokey
I noticed the changed after a trip.
Now the backstory we had discussed a trip to visit Paris a place our DM wanted to go.
Me and the middle sister and our little sister.
During the planning stages she asked if her DH could come as he had never been to Paris.
I had said it was okay and he could if he wanted too.
Now my DH was not coming, and our middle sister is single.
To be honest I didn’t want him to go.
So I made something up which now I realise was silly and petty.
She gave us her dates which were for the beginning of the week Monday tues and this was the earliest that they could catch a flight.
I told her that was too late in the week and I wanted to fly out earlier in the week (Sunday we went)
And that I had to be back by weds.
She was fine told us to have a good time and didn’t come.
Now I feel she’s become distant and cold towards me.
I have no idea what to do?
Was it petty? Was it really that bad or is she being a drama queen?