It’s my partner’s 40th in around a month when our baby will be 10 weeks old. She’s sleeping a max of 2 hours in her cot a night and the rest of the time in our arms so we’re having to take shifts holding her. We hadn’t planned anything in advance for my partners birthday as we didn’t know what life would be like with a newborn. He has mentioned organising a night away with some of his friends to celebrate his birthday but he doesn’t seem to have sorted anything. I was looking at possibly hiring a nice Airbnb for a weekend either just us or with some of his friends but we’re currently sleeping in separate bedrooms because of the sleep shifts, were sleep deprived and we haven’t done a long drive/trip away with the baby yet. I feel like we should do something for his birthday as it’s a big one but I don’t know if it’s too much. Would it be unreasonable of me not to plan anything? I wish it was next year instead!