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To get annoyed by this behaviour?

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missfatty · 05/07/2019 22:02

OH is getting on every nerve in my body.
I've been up with the kids all day since half 5 this morning youngest DC just went down half an hour ago. I thought ah I can relax now watch love island then he starts with this thing he does all the time.

He goes "tomorrow make sure you sort the new cot out for DD" I hmm at him meaning yes then he replies do you want her to share a room with her brother or not. Then he starts again "just make sure you sort them drawers out as I'm going to need another drawer in our room"

This morning same thing you need to do this if I don't tell you what to do you won't do it.

I eventually went up stairs in a huff telling him to give me a break and to p off and he threw clean washing at me.

He thinks because he goes to work he doesn't have to do anything. He's come from work had his dinner been out in garden on his phone to his dad for half an hour had a long shower while I'm sorting DS and DD for bed and done ironing.

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RickOShay · 05/07/2019 22:29

Yanbu
You need a break. Could you go out for a coffee tomorrow morning and leave him to get on with it?
Stand your ground, stay calm and just do it.
Flowers

Wearywithteens · 05/07/2019 23:00

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Stefoscope · 05/07/2019 23:09

Wow, what did his last slave dies of?! Seriously though, I would turn it back on him tomorrow, tell him you'll sort the cot whilst he sorts out the drawers he needs. If he moans about sharing the workload and expects you to do it all, he's a grade A asshole. Unless he's offering to take the kids out for the day, when does he expect you to have some downtime?

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