My mum died recently and it triggered a string of coincidences. Names have been changed in this post to tell you what happened.
I didn't pick the undertaker, the sheltered accommodation called one of ten undertakers in my town and so I just went with them. The funeral director I was assigned from the few that worked there, she was lovely. She was called Pam, same as my mum. Coincidence one.
I was having a tough time financially as well as emotionally, as my mum died to alcoholism and there was no money to pay for the funeral (had to crowdfund it eventually). The funeral director was extremely sympathetic, as it turns out that she lost her dad to alcoholism and went through a lot of what I had. Second coincidence, albeit a small one.
A few days later, I had registered mum's death and returned with the documentation that authorised a cremation. As Pam looked through it, she went pale. My mum's first married name was the same as Pam's, the surname isn't a common one at all and that was freaky for Pam to see her own name on the death certificate. Coincidence three.
Oh but there's more, Pam's middle name is Clair, same as my mum, exact same spelling too. Coincidence four.
Not only is Pam's full married name the exact same as my mum's, but she was born in the same year too. Coincidence five.
Day of the funeral, as we are saying thank you outside the crematorium, a pall-bearer from the undertakers approaches me and asks if I recognise him, I sort of do, but don't. Turns out he's my mum's brother-in-law from her second marriage. I'd not seen him since he moved to Spain 25 years ago. Coincidence six.
At the wake, I step out of the pub function room to get some air. Get talking to a lady who's having a drink and smoke outside the pub, turns out she knew my mum 20 years ago, through mutual friends. Coincidence seven.
Finally, anther local joins us outside chatting and turns out his wife has just lost her mum, we get talking. His wife's name is Pam too, and her surname is the exact same surname as my mum's third (and final!) married name. Eight coincidences. I was blown away!!
Oh, sorry.. There was actually one more. The celebrant the undertaker assigned to us, turned out that outside of his funeral work, he worked in the same very niche industry as me, doing the same job and he'd worked at two same organisations as me, but we missed each other both times by about a year, so never met, but had plenty of friends in common.