I don't understand his intentions

[srav23]

Hello. I'm 23 and he is 27.
It's been 2years almost since we got into a relationship. Today we went to a movie together as its our day off from work. We barely meet outside and whenever i meet him i want to spend some quality time together to talk and share things. We reached theater through our own transport, we watched movie by ourselves, we came out and we left to our own places. I mean why would he not ask me to go out with hin somewhere for dome quality time.there was a park just beside the theater. We could have gone there and spend the evening sometime. Everytime i meet him, i enf up disappointed.

Have you told him that you feel like this?

Sounds like he’s a separate life he doesn’t want you to know about.

Well you have to ask him or you won't know.

You've been together two years?! Wtf

Why don't you suggest it? Then at least by his response, you will some idea about his intentions.

Decide what you'd like to do,organise it and set the date.

I don't think you can call that a relationship.
You need a proper conversation.

Sorry but he’s just not that into you and didn’t fancy the cinema alone,

Why didn't you just say as you left the cinema 'how about we go and ....'. Why is it down to him? Maybe he's thinking you're not showing any interest and that's why he doesn't?

I had a boyfriend like this once. I basically drove him wild with longing by playing hot and cold and always remaining outwardly unruffled. Transpired he was ashamed of his rather grotty rental flat and when he bought his own place, he became much keener. He didn't even want to disappoint me by doing too many things together before that happened. We're still together, over a decade now!

Take initiative and do the asking. You've been together two years so its not as if you need to play it coy lol. Or just straight up say 'hey, I don't feel like we really spend enough quality time together so next time how about we...have a picnic/take a long walk (ect…)' and if he makes excuses or says yes but then doesn't follow up, you know its just not working.

You need to talk to him about it and how you feel, you’ve been together for 2 years so should be able to talk to him about these things.

He's just not that into you? He already had a gf?

It's always the same.. I am the only one who takes initiate and talk about us.. He play no role of his. I always feel incomplete.