AIBU here?
Simple story, DM and I were out in a social setting. She'd messaged me pestering and wanted me to come 'rescue her' because some guy was talking to her.
I found her, 'rescued' her, and she'd then started telling me it's someone she actually really liked (although he's married) and how much she fancied him when she'd worked with him somewhere. I'd just made a comment that I thought she didn't know him because she wanted to be 'rescued' and thought that suited because my first though is 'as if she's sat with that ugly guy!'
(I was probably being U to make a nasty comment, I'm aware of that, but it was more light-hearted about the situation that I'd had to trek round to find her and 'save' her.
And she's recently met my boyfriend (getting serious), and her next comment was, 'that's exactly what I thought about your boyfriend'. I said 'hey!' and she'd said 'don't take the mick about people I fancy and I won't have to be honest then'.
I get what I said was unreasonable but still... it's hardly the same as outright saying that about the person I'm in a relationship with in a really honest way as me saying it about some married guy she asked me to 'save' her from but allegedly fancied at some point.
Maybe I shouldn't care?