I need a head wobble

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DS (7) is thinking of joining a club. For me the actual appeal is the first session is free, so if he doesn't like it, then its win win.

DP ran into some old friends last weekend, I really do not get on with these people and it turns out that they are the leader and very involved in this group.

I will admit I am holding a grudge against them. I uttered a comment about being glad DSS (at the time aged 2) would be going home before 7pm and DS (newborn) would be asleep so I could watch Dr Who. They reported this back to his mum as I didn't like DSS around because I couldn't do anything. DSS' mum actually checked this with me and was worried.

I do not trust these people and certainly not in any authority position. But DS really wants to go, do I trust my gut and try to find something near to it or do I suck it up?

They sound like they enjoy dramatics. Let's hope they have grown up a bit in the intervening years. Let DC do his club.

You give it a go.

It was seven years ago.

They sound like they enjoy dramatics. Let's hope they have grown up a bit in the intervening years. Let DC do his club

Thank you for the reply, I know they are still friends with DSS mum and from what she has said no they haven't (this is 3rd or 4th hand) I think maybe part of my issue is that we have a good relationship with DPs ex, and it worries me that anything I say or even DS says is going to get twisted for their amusment

It was seven years ago.

Aye it was, but a leopard does not change its spots.

Ah fuck it, maybe I should leave this one in DPs hands because my head is so dead against it.

Then speak to DSS's Mum and tell her that your DS is about to start the club.

It's for her to shut down any nonsense. But make it clear that you won't indulge it.