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A mum snogs headmaster

32 replies

whattodo2019 · 29/06/2019 10:21

What would you think if a mum told you she had snogged the head?

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MamaWeasel · 29/06/2019 10:23

Depends if they're both single....

SillyBub · 29/06/2019 10:25

If it was the headteacher at my DC's school, I'd be getting her to have her eyesight checked or telling her to stop drinking so much Grin

hormonesorDHbeingadick · 29/06/2019 10:25

Are they married to other people? Or perhaps each other?

InTheHeatofLisbon · 29/06/2019 10:25

I'd wonder why she was telling me to be honest.

If they're both single, no harm done. If not, they're both arseholes.

Generally though, I can't see why it would need to be public information.

DuploTower · 29/06/2019 10:26

First day of the hols?

Banhaha · 29/06/2019 10:40

I'd think she was weird for telling me.

Pinkfinkle · 29/06/2019 10:43

I think a few of the school Mums have a crush on the head at my DC’s school. He’s the only male member of staff aside from the very old (but lovely obvs Grin) caretaker. The head really isn’t my type but maybe that’s the only vaguely attractive guy some of those Mum’s will see, not sure. They all flock around him at pick up time wanting to gossip, bizarre...

If one of them snogged him I wouldn’t really be surprised but he is married and doubt he’s interested.

Rezie · 29/06/2019 10:49

Are they single? Was it consensual? Did this happen in front of students? Was this something that occurred 20 years ago when they were teenagers?

In general if someone shared this with me I would probably think "oh, that's cool" and not really think about it again.

RubberTreePlant · 29/06/2019 10:50

If it was MY mum talking about my Dad, I could probably cope Grin

MyOpinionIsValid · 29/06/2019 10:50

I'd think she was as drunk as a lord !

InsertFunnyUsername · 29/06/2019 10:51

Not much really, maybe a fake ooooh did ya thats nice

NoSauce · 29/06/2019 10:53

Just signed up to post this OP?
What do you think about it?

zippey · 29/06/2019 10:55

Even head teachers need to be kissed.

MsAwesomeDragon · 29/06/2019 10:55

Well one of the mums at my school has snogged the head. She's done significantly more than smog him too considering they've got 2 kids together. She's his wife.

One of the teachers has snogged the head too. Same woman.

So it definitely depends on the context. Some mum snogging the head at dds school would probably cause a scandal because the head seems like a happily married woman.

singingismypassion · 29/06/2019 11:20

Are they single or married?

VivienneHolt · 29/06/2019 11:21

If they’re both single, fine. If one or both of them are not single, bad.

whattodo2019 · 29/06/2019 11:28

the Mum Is getting divorced. HM is single. The mum is heavily involved in the school (governor). I was really surprised she decided to tell me. I work at the school. Of course I wouldn't dream of ever telling anyone. I doubt it will become anything. Most of us thought the head was gay!

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Banhaha · 29/06/2019 12:05

I don't see that it matters.

Hopoindown31 · 29/06/2019 12:09

Probably not an issue but the fact that she is a governor is a bit concerning as they have to hold the head to account.

Waveysnail · 29/06/2019 12:10

And. They are both single

P1nkHeartLovesCake · 29/06/2019 12:28

If they are 2 single adults, who the F cares?

Two single people snog, shocking!

Peanutbutterforever · 29/06/2019 12:45

Didn't part of MN used to fancy Mr Bloom? If that's possible, nothings possible!

WalnutCabinet · 29/06/2019 12:49

Headmaster?

prep? or a flashback to 1958?

herculepoirot2 · 29/06/2019 12:54

I wouldn’t think it was any of my business, and would wish them well.

WalnutCabinet · 29/06/2019 13:38

In reality. The Head would be asked to stay at home whilst it was investigated.

The outcome would depend on what the code of conduct says and if he discussed it with anyone (HR, adviser, ceo , Chair etc) and put appropriate provision in place to avoid conflicts of interest.

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