Ongoing emotional abuse from my ex for the past few months since our break up. I've consulted DM for advice and for a rant on a good few occasions as that's the person I feel most secure going to.
He'd started messaging some manipulative stuff last night and I'd screenshotted, sent to her and asked for her advice on the best response to shut the conversation down. I was scared because I knew he was going to be turning up to my home this morning (to drop DS off) so wanted to diffuse the kick off and set boundaries.
She provided no advice and no help apart from saying repeatedly 'just don't reply, just get up tomorrow and decide what the best thing to say is', but I was already concerned that we'd be meeting so early.
I text him a really short text basically saying no need for texting, let's not start this, see you tomorrow. He'd continued to message and I'd sent her them but obviously hadn't continued to reply to him.
He was aggressive this morning and I'd rang police. I let her know just over text what had happened.
I was looking forward to hearing back with some reassurance and some support and to be told I'd done the right thing to not stand for his shit and for contacting police which must've been hard in itself only for her to ring and start shouting and ranting about how pathetic I am for replying to his message yesterday and how she's sick of the drama and can't be assed with the 'bullshit' etc ETC.
I hung up the phone, and have declined every call since now with texts telling me I'm being ridiculous and that she's stressed in her life and I make no effort to help myself etc.