I've been volunteering somewhere to get experience in that field but also to get a reference to be able to go on to study to work in said field if successful at the course. It's taken a long time to get the reference sorted and for most of the time I've enjoyed volunteering there. However the last few times I've been there I've started to feel like I'm in the way. It's a very busy place and there's always a lot going on for the staff so I know they are stretched to their limit so have tried to be as helpful as possible and never say no to their requests but now I just feel like when I turn up they are thinking oh god not her again. My reference came through a few days ago. Would it be awful to make my next session there my last? Do I seem like I'm taking the reference and running? I just feel like I've accidentally outstayed my welcome there now and don't want to make the situation worse. I never had an end date in mind as I thought I'd have been told that's as much as they can offer me but that's never came and I'm wondering should I say thank you and goodbye now? Side note I am SEN so over think things constantly and am always afraid of putting my foot in it so thoughts I'd ask and see is I abiu or not as I genuinely don't know.