Less AIBU, more WIBU to be annoyed by the following.
DS is 9 months. DH smoked when i met him, vapes were then invented and he had one that broke, never had the money to replace it or for cigs so just quit. His family still vape/smoke.
We were at FIL house with DS playing on the floor crawling up to each person in a "pick me up please" way. FIL picked him up, was playing etc then put him down and said "im coming back to play in a min". Left the room and came back in with his vape, puffing away in DS face.
Now, im not 100% sure of the effects of second hand vape smoke so feel free to educate me, but i wasnt happy about it but wasnt unhappy enough to ask him to stop (considering we were in his home).
What would you have done?
For a bit of background, DH family are a bit relaxed about what is done around and in front of children. Eg. FIL suggested SIL vape when pregnant and has recently suggested some more illegal ways to relax when kids are in bed. Dont know if thats relevant but thir attitude towards it gets my back up. I think if he had done it in our house DH may have asked him not to but i dont know.
How would people feel if this was them?